Sunday, July 13, 2008

Get Em' Badu...


So apparently my girl, Erykah Badu is pregnant again. This time not by Andre 3000 or The DOC. This child was created with Jay Electronica. Of course a lot of blog readers decided to brutally criticize her on blogs sites for having 3 children out of wedlock ( I always wondered who the fuck created this retarded ass term anyway). So Badu decided to tell them a thing or two.... (source)

"HOW DARE YOU DISRESPECT THE QUEENDOM

…AND MY CHILDREN AND MY INTELLIGENCE.

ive never been so disgusted in all of my life .
there is no other place i used to enjoy more .
i post no where else .
you guys have taken an all time low , tho.

I’LL STATE MY PEACE

i am a great mother and care giver to my 2 children and to this world .
my children are 2 of the kindest and happiest people i have met.
I home schooled them and taught them the ways of good to the best of my ability.
i am their doctor and their nurse .
and even sometimes their mother and their father.

i am an excellent mother and resent all of the negative comments and insults on my character.
I PUT MUCH TIME AND THOUGHT INTO HAVING AND RAISING MY CHILDREN.
IVE HAD THE HONORS OF HAVING 2 HOME BIRTHS AND 2 WONDERFUL PARTNERS BY MY SIDE.

every relationship i have been in was because i loved the person DEARLY and was dedicated to us “exclusively” FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS.

the fathers of my children are my brothers and friends .
we have a great deal of respect for one another and always will.
WE LOVE OUR CHILDREN TO NO END.
we took our own “vows” and CONTINUE TO UPHOLD THEM.
AND THAT IS WHAT THAT IS .

question?
WHAT IS MARRIAGE ?
WHO IS THE JUDGE?
WE ONLY UNDERSTAND THE EXAMPLES WE ARE GIVEN ( well sort of)

WOULD IT “LOOK BETTER ” TO MARRY AND DIVIORCE AND MARRY AGAIN ?
WOULD THAT BE MORALLY CORRECT ?
WHATS THE DIFFERENCE ? the government’s involvement i guess.
IDEALLY , IT WOULD BE EXCELLENT TO FIND THE MAN OR WOMAN WHO FULFILLS YOUR SPIRIT AND STAY FOR EVER AND EVER ( thru sickness and health till death do us part ) AND HAVE HEALTHY STRONG CHILDREN AS A RESULT OF A HEALTHY AND STRONG UNION.
(this CAN happen … we need much training , however.)

OR

IS IT REALLY “GOOD” TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE BOTH PARTIES ARE UNFULFILLED , LONGING FOR RELIEF , BRINGING one another down as a result of improper training , creating BAD ENERGY AND EXPERIENCES FOR THE CHILD TO REPEAT ?
(not to mention breeding deceit and anger and resentment )
SEEMS TO CREATE FEARFUL CHILDREN WHO TURN INTO FEARFUL ADULTS .

HOW MANY OF YOU GREW UP IN 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE MISERABLE AS FUCK ?
OR 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE NOT PERFECT BUT WORKED?
HOW MANY GREW UP IN ONE PARENT HOMES WHERE THE MOTHER WORKED HARD TO MAKE SURE YOU WERE CARED FOR BUT SHE WASNT QUITE HAPPY?
HOW ABOUT A HOME WHERE THE FATHER WAS THE MAIN CARE GIVER AND DID THE BEST HE COULD -LACKING NURTURE?
HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE A SIBLING THAT HAS A DIFFERENT FATHER OR MOTHER?
DOES HE OR SHE MEAN LESS TO YOU?
HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE MORE THAN 1 MOTHER OR FATHER OF YOUR OWN CHILDren ?
HOW MANY OF YOU HAD /OR / ARE PARENTS RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO MAKE GOOD DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN ,THAT DONT QUITE FIT ANY OF THESE DESCRIPTIONS?
HOW MANY OF YOU STAY IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS FOR FEAR OF GOING TO HELL?
HOW MANY HOS OUT THERE … THAT HAVE KIDS TO GET A PAYDAY?
HOW MANY PEOPLE GETTING THEY ASS KICKED AND ARE FORCED TO SUBMIT CAUSE YO MAMA GOT HER ASS KICKED?
THEN WHAT is CORRECT?

how about this:

I PRAY WITH MY CHILDREN
I FEED THEM GOOD FOOD
THEY RESPECT PEOPLES DIFFERENCES
THEY TRAVEL THE WORLD WITH ME
THE KNOW WHO THEY ARE
THEY ADORE THEIR FATHERS AND ARE LOVED BY 2 PARENTS OR MORE -
OR TWO OR MORE SETS OF LOVING GRANDPARENTS
THEY CRY
THEY GET HURT
THEY GET SICK
THEY HEAL

THEY ARE real

THEY ARE NOT AN IDEA or a TOPIC
AND NEITHER AM I .
I AM ALIVE .
I AM BEAUTIFUL WOMAN.
I AM A GOOD WOMAM.
I AM GROWING
I AM COMPLETE WITH OR WITHOUT A PARTNER AND WILL ALWAYS BE
AND I HAVE DREAMS OF A FAMILY STRUCTURE
ALL OF MY DREAMS DO NOT COME TRUE
AND DESPITE ALL OF THE PAIN IN MY LIFE …
IN MY MOTHERS LIFE …
IN MY GRANDMOTHERS LIFE
WE HAVE ALWAYS ENDURED
AND THERE IS SO MUCH JOY TO BE EXPERIENCED.
I NEVER HAD A FATHER AND I DONT KNOW WHAT THAT FEELS LIKE -
BUT MY CHILDREN DO , AND THEY LOVE THEIR ‘PARENTS’ .

WE ARE THEIR CHAMPIONS .

live how you want . follow which ever pattern YOU like .
MY CHILDREN WILL BE LEADERS
and they will not ever be slaves to this society’s failing idea of morality.
THEY OWN THEIR MINDS AND THEIR DREAMS.

BIRTH CONTROL lol … could have 10 babies instead of 2 .

I LOVE CHILDREN AND I WILL HAVE AS MANY AS GOD WILL GIVE ME .

I AM VERY HEALTHY AND RESPONSIBLE AND SO ARE ALL OF MY PARTNERS

I CHOSE THEM WISELY AND SOBERLY .

ALL GOOD BROTHERS .

your opinions lack experience and are not only careless but also very uninformed and immature.

nothing is sacred here . and i see why.

if i loose you as a fan because i want to continue to have children then
F*CK OFF… WHO NEEDS YOU ….CERTAINLY NOT ME … KICK ROCKS … CALL TYRONE … PACK LIGHT …. BITE ME

i have defended myself here ON THIS SITE and hurled a few insults .. but only in response to your insults of
my music , my clothes , my lyrics , my hair , my being a woman , my spirit, my choices of partners….
these have all been on trial here . and i continued to support the energy of this place .

this is to all the okay players / REAL HUMAN BEINGS hiding behind screen names in order to insult one another and who ever else you will.

geeeez…
i had to say something
i am so sad for parents who try , today guys
enough is enuf.

dont judge to quickly , OKAY PLAYER?

i know you are having fun , but what if it were you and your children?
my son is 10 .
my daughter, 4 .

peace

ANALOGUE GIRL

and if this post is not clear
kiss my placenta."

I don't blame her. People kill the fuck out of me always trying to judge. She's right would it make more sense to get married several times just because society thinks it's right? Fuck America as well as other countries and their narrow minded ass views. Live your own life. Be Happy. Do what the fuck ever you want because you have to deal with it nobody else does. You only get one life. Nothing in it is guaranteed besides death. That's why I have locks that I love regardless of how many ignorant comments I've had. I have 5 tattoos and I'm probably gonna get like 25 more. My nose is pierced. I have 2 wholes in each of my ears. I watch porn and probably have about 5-6 toys that I pleasure myself with regularly. Once I'm up to it redoing my hair I'm dying the back pink. I love foods that aren't conventional or that the average air headed American wouldn't dare try. I sleep in the nude at least once a week. When I'm home alone I sometimes blast my radio and dance naked. I'm 22. I've been in college since 2003 and I'm still not finished. I've saw a psychiatrist during at least 2 time periods in my life and I'm going back. Guess what. I could give a fuck what anybody else thinks. Do you because you damn sure ain't doing me.

7 comments:

Ebony Intuition said...

True, i'm tired of people ridiculing black women for having children out of wedlock, women of all races have children out of wedlock. People who are married and have children doesn't make them any better of a parent because they are married.

BabyBrown said...

This is one of the best posts that I have ever read... I love your points at the end...

Thank you Glennisha... what you wrote was very, very beautiful and informative...

I am honored to know you...

With Respect,

BabyBrown

Glennisha Morgan said...

Thanks momma!

K said...

THANK YOU! I loved both of your responses. Many people want to interject themselves into situations where their opinions are not needed/wanted, but don't step back to see how and why many societal and intra-familial forces shaped their own opinions and conditions.

F.U. said...

I know that's right Glennisha!!!I love it!! WHO GIVES A FUCK! Do you baby!! Seriously, thanks for breaking it down one time. I can't believe people would judge, of all people, Erykah. I just talked about this situation on the radio show...www.blogtalkradio.com/TheFUHour

Keep doin the damn thing GM!

Glennisha Morgan said...

Exactly. People need to really just worry about themselves. I don't understand why people are so concerned about other people's actions that DON'T affect them at all. For one thing who Erykah chooses to have children with, marry or not marry, and how many children she chooses to have is her business. They're coming out of her womb not anybody elses.For one Erykah Badu tours more than she makes records so I know she has money in the bank. As long as she can take care of her children and they're not mistreated who cares. Who the hell says that women or anybody period has to be subjected to marriage if they don't it? I bet the same people running the traps are in fucked up marriages. They're husbands were probably out in the streets fooling around as they were typing that mess.

FU.Lol Thanks. Word? I'mma go check out that radio segment.

choklitgyrrl said...

everybody knows that badu has a screw loose