Glennisha Morgan

I'm Moving

2008-08-27T10:16:00.006-04:00

I'm moving to Wordpress you guys! I've contemplated the move for a long time now. People kept telling me it's better than Blog Spot and they have way more layout choices, etc. So I randomly decided to make the move today!So please bare with me. I'm trying to make a smooth transition and grasp the wordpress stuff. It's GlennishaMorgan.Wordpress.com. Toodles!

This Morning

2008-08-27T09:56:00.005-04:00

Wow. I had a ball early this morning during my radio show. This particular segment, When Did You First Fall In Love With Hip Hop, had the most listeners, callers, and chatters. The chat room was packed and people were straight clowning in there!It was all good though because I love to laugh. We had a few faked accents on the line. One from Atlanta and one from Iraq lol. Although, the clowning kept me rolling I am no longer going to answer blocked calls on the show. I also just learned that what the blocked calls show up as on the switchboard. It's funny because before today when I saw the blocked calls, I'd never answer them because I didn't know that they were real calls. On the switchboard blocked calls show up as 111-111-111 so I was always like wtf, and never paid attention to them. Anywho, like why block your number? It's not like I'mma write it down and call you later lol. I also like to see area codes so I have an idea of where people are listening to my show.(Big Ups to NY and the South I had a lot of listeners from NY and the South last night)Again the pranks were kind of funny but, some of the ignorance was just that. Pure ignorance and I will NOT tolerate that on the show. Say what you want in the chat room but, not on the air!

When I First Fell In Love With Hip Hop

2008-08-26T12:22:00.008-04:00

DO NOT GET ENTERTAINMENT NEWS FROM YOUR PARENTS I SWEAR! I had decided to take my ass back to bed this morning and as soon as I got back in the bed my mom called me and said that she heard on the radio that Dr.Dre died. So I'm like what? I don't believe this. So of course I get out of the bed and get on my computer to do some investigating. What do you know, within about 1 minute I found out that Dr. Dre isn't dead. It's his son, Andre Young Jr. that was found dead. He was only 20 years old. That's really sad..... What's crazy is I honestly had shed a few tears after my mom had told me. I was like I know Dr.Dre isn't dead.My honey txted me asking why was I crying because I didn't know him, and he only made good music, it wasn't like he really stood up for anything, etc. So I explained, Dr. Dre along with Snoop, Warren G, Ice Cube, and Eazy E were like the first rappers that I started listening to and that West Coast rap holds a place in my heart. I was also pissed because I was waiting like everyone else for Dre to drop Detox (Duh)! What's crazy too is that I was in the third grade when Regulators, Gin & Juice, and all of those hot ass west coast singles came out. So I really wasn't at the age to truly appreciate the music. It wasn't until I got a little older and listened again to all of those old joints that I truly fell in love.... If anybody ever asks me what was my favorite concert that I've ever been to, I'll always reply with "The Up In Smoke Tour". That was the hottest fucking concert ever. Bare with me on the profanity. I'm getting really excited just typing about it lol. The headliners of that concert were Snoop, Dr.Dre, Ice Cube, and Eminem. Some others were MC Ren,Xhibit,etc. First off they come out on stage in this purple old school car. To my memory I believe it was on old Impala. They're hitting switches. I mean the whole West Coast vibe was just phenomenal and crazy. They did all of my favorite old joints. It was just great! That concert was actually a showcase of rappers actually PERFORMING! They didn't just stand on stage with an entourage and yell! That's what made it really dope. They also had the dopest props ever! Anyway to make a long story short, Dr. Dre, Snoop, Warren G, Ice Cube, Eazy E are reasons why I love Hip Hop! They are the first(AS FAR AS MALE RAPPERS) that my ears heard and actually paid attention to. Then later on it was Pac, Biggie, Nas, etc.

It's Finally Here

2008-08-26T00:12:00.002-04:00

Ok. I know that Solo has gotten a lot of posts here this summer but, I guess it's simply because I love her! Anyway, today is the day! Go cop it. It's out.

Blogging While Bored, 5 Questions, 5 Answers

2008-08-25T19:40:00.005-04:00

When I'm bored I do this kinda stuff. Since today is very slow and boring. Here goes. I stole this from Eb The Celeb.

1.What is your favorite song to have sex to?
I honestly don't have a favorite song to have sex to. I haven't did it with music playing in a long time Lol but, Jill Scott or Floetry would be just fine. Don't laugh but, also every once in a while I have an urge to do it to some rap but, not just any rap. I actually have a cd with specific rap joints that are smooth for sexing lol. One of them happens to be Twista- Get It Wet

2. What is your drag name ?
Drag Name? I don't know about that one. How about Suga?

3. In the film made of your life, who will play you?
This question is funny because EB actually chose the same person I would choose. My top choice would be Nia Long. I feel kind of bad because it's not based on her skills. I think she's the most beautifulest Black actress ever! She even tops Halle Berry in my book. (I love Halle but, I'll say this for any man or woman that thinks Halle is #1 you're nuts but, I'll save my other comments for a whole other post.) My second choice would be Angela Bassett. I don't think I'd even have to explain my reason for her. She's just awesome. My third choice would be Zoe Saldana. I don't know why but, I think she could play certain parts of my personality good. Also, I kinda thought of Brandy but, I don't know. Maybe.

4. What is one thing that you would change about yourself?
One thing that I'd change about myself is my social anxiety. I have actually been working on this for a while now but, I noticed yesterday that I think it's coming back. I don't know why but, I hate it.

5. What's your status message on your preferred social networking site?

myspace - Blogtalkradio.com/theinsomniahour is running specials this weekend for loc maintenance so get at me and get fresh! (BTW, since the weekend is officially over I'm no longer running specials but, you can still hit me up if you need dreadlock maintenance)

facebook - Glennisha is gonna do alumni cheer foreal this time, I miss cheerleading.

I So Want To Be There

2008-08-25T18:54:00.005-04:00

I usually can afford to do at least one summer concert a year! So far this summer I haven't been to one because my pockets won't allow me too :( I really want to attend this one, especially since the summer is like officially over now. Especially, in Detroit because last night was cold as hell. Personally, I just really wanna see Nas, Keith Murray , and Rakim. I can do without Scarface, Busta, and Foxy. I know some people are probably like what, I'm crazy. I am NOT crazy about those 3 at all. Scarface's voice just always sounded so scary to me that I could never really give him a listen. Busta is cool but, just not a favorite of mine. Foxy, I never was a huge fan of her either. Although,I'd love to see her and Nas do an old joint tho for old time sakes. Too bad, AZ cant' make a cameo so they can do Phone Tap! Also, Nas is my favorite rapper and he's only been to "The D" a few times, and I've never had a chance to catch him so I do NOT want to miss this opportunity. For all of those people who says that Nas is dried up (including my honey) screw you because I still love Nas, he's still #1 in my book, Anywho, if anyone would like to donate me tickets this event I'd blow you a million kisses! Even if I can't get tickets, I think I'mma chill out on the grass. Yes! That's how we do it in Detroit. When concerts are at Chene Park and for whatever reason you can't get tickets, you bring a chair and chill outside on the grass! The sound is so great you can still enjoy everything! It would also be tight as hell if I had a nice boat because Chene Park is right off the river and if you have a boat you can actually like park right behind the stage and enjoy!...........

Death, Premonitions, and Such

2008-08-25T18:31:00.003-04:00

Today is the day that Aaliyah died 7 years ago. Wow, I swear it doesn't seem like that long ago. Anywho while my cousin was over today we discussed Aaliyah's death then we moved over to Left-Eye's death. My cousin told me that she saw this video a long time ago of Left-Eye saying that she had premonitions, she knew she was going to die, and that when she ran over that little boy she was actually suppose to die, not the boy. She stated that some spirit was following her. I honestly don't believe in spirits and I also believe that Left- Eye was a little mental after watching several videos of her on YouTube. (I saw this one video where she had cut hate in all capital letters into her arm.) After finding out that Left-Eye claimed she had premonitions of her death it also made me think about Tupac . I started to think like wow it must be really weird to have premonitions of your own death. It also made me question like maybe people who have those so-called premonitions and believe that they are going to die soon or young just want to die, or either they're just really scared of death so much that they dream about it. Also, as far as people who live certain type of lifestyles (Gangbangers, Drugdealers, Murderers, etc.) death automatically becomes like an option for them. Maybe option isn't he right word choice but, it kind of like an option that's a part of that lifestyle. So most of those type of people know that it's HIGHLY possible they're going to die. So having premonitions about it is kind of like nothing special. I myself have had several nightmares of me dying several different ways but, I do NOT think that I'm going to die anytime soon. I've probably had about 6 different dreams of me getting shot. I've also had one or two dreams of me getting hit by a train. Again, I don't think I'm leaving this earth anytime soon. I also happen to hope and think that I'll leave here at a very old age after I've watched my children have children and my husband and I have lived full and fulfilling lives. Also, after watching this video that was recorded right before Left Eye died. It made me feel kind of weird. Like, what if I had a chance to record my very LAST seconds on earth. Wouldn't that be crazy and kind of weird. I also found it weird that Left-Eye actually went to Honduras for enlightening and change and then ended up dying. Anyway, I'd just like to know other people's opinions on death and premonitions. Feel free to share.

R.I.P. Babygirl

2008-08-25T16:47:00.002-04:00

Another one of Detroit's Own January 16, 1979 – August 25, 2001

See This is What I'm Talking About

2008-08-24T08:28:00.006-04:00

Now, my blog is no way a blog to just dog or hate on folks but, this post is kind of a like a part two and response to some comments made on my post What is the big deal? THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. STRAIGHT BUSTED! LOOK AT SERENA CLOSELY! THIS IS WHAT SHE LOOKED LIKE ATTENDING THE US Open USTA/Heineken Premium Light Official Players Party on the rooftop of NY’s Empire Hotel THIS WEEKEND. SHE LOOKS LIKE SOMEBODY'S TIRED GRANDMA. WAIT SHE LOOKS LIKE A 40YEAR OLD GRANDMA WHO IS TIRED OF TAKING CARE OF HER 16 AND 17 YEAR OLD'S KIDS. SO SHE SAID I'MMA TRY TO FIND A MAN TONIGHT. LMAO! THE DRESS SCREAMS GRANNY!AGAIN, WHAT MEN SEE IN HER LORD I DO NOT KNOW! SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND! ALSO, I UNDERSTAND THAT THIS WAS A OPEN USTA PARTY BUT DAMNIT WHY MUST SHE ALWAYS LOOK LIKE SHE JUST CAME OFF THE TENNIS COURT, THREW ON SOME CLOTHES, AND DIDN'T SHOWER??? WHY?

A Quote

2008-08-24T07:39:00.002-04:00

I happened to run across a quote this morning from George Bernard Shaw, "Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."........I really like this quote and I think it's true. People sometimes have this whole notion of finding themselves but, do we really find ourselves? I don't think so. I mean as life goes on and we get older we find out exactly what we like and what we don't like but, I think we kind of already know this stuff but, sometimes we just don't acknowledge it or pursue the things that we like. Even though most people go through growing phases where they change and sometimes stop doing things that they use to do or stop believing in what they use to believe in, we all have choices. So we choose to change, grow, evolve, etc. Therefore we create ourselves or who we want to be perceived as.

I So Hate My Uterus and Ovaries Right Now

2008-08-23T13:44:00.006-04:00

I am really hating my uterus and ovaries right now. I'm not really into sharing things that are really personal but, I don't mind sharing this because I know a lot of women suffer from this. I happen to have a cyst on my left ovary, which causes me to have very painful periods and even now I have cramping when I'm not even on my cycle. It's very frustrating and irritating. Before I even knew that I had a cyst I complained to my general physician about my cramping and he put me on Naproxen. Naproxen didn't work at all. I found myself taking like 2-3 pills at a time and it still didn't help. I would spend days in bed because of the pain. I eventually found out that Naproxen had given me an ulcer and I could no longer take it. So I went to OBGYN begging her to do everything that she needed to do to find out why my cramps were so severe. I also informed her that my mother had tons of cysts and fibroid tumors on her uterus that were so bad she had to get a hysterectomy. I also informed her that a cousin of mine had ovarian cancer at 16 year old so I was very worried and scared. My OBGYN scheduled me for an ultrasound. That's when I found out that I had a cyst on my left ovary. When I found out that I had the cyst my OBGYN immediately put me on birth control to reduce the cramps, and the possibilities of growing more cysts. The birth control that I was first on was Lo-Estren. I'm not sure if I'm spelling it right but, it worked wonders as far as cramping. My cramps had ceased completely while I was on Lo-Estren. My periods were also very light and I was loving it. The only problem was that I couldn't handle the side effects. Almost everyday I was feeling nauseated. I had headaches and a number of other problems so I asked my OBGYN to switch my pills. She then put me on Yaz. I'm still on it. Yaz isn't doing a damn thing for me. I have cramps and each month their worse and worse. I hadn't had any cramps when I wasn't on my cycle until I was on Yaz. So I'm like randomly having cramps throughout the month. My cycles are regular and too heavy for me to be on birth control. Now, I want my OBGYN to switch my birth control again. I'm a little worried about switching birth control numerous time but, I absolutely can NOT go through this severe cramping again. Now I am aware that for some odd reason ovarian cysts and fibroid tumors are very prevalent in Black women. So far there has been no research done that has proved why. I was also listening to Monique's radio show the other day and cysts and fibroids were the topic. She had her OBGYN on the line and she also stated she had no idea why this is so prevalent in Black women. I would like to why is it prevalent in women period and especially Black women. Now I know nothing about conducting medical surveys but, I would like to do some research and try find out something. I would like to know if this can be linked to food that we eat because what we eat actually does play a huge part in a lot of things that is wrong with us. I would also like to know if this can be linked to things we are breathing in the air. Maybe it's products we use on our hair. I don't know but, I'd like know why. BTW, the pictures are just random pictures I found on the internet they aren't pictures of my uterus. I hope mine doesn't look like that. I feel sorry for women whose uterus does look like that.

Be Comfortable In Your Own Skin

2008-08-22T22:02:00.002-04:00

Check out my latest Think Girl column. You can read it here.

Gweni Poo Had a Boy

2008-08-22T02:16:00.002-04:00

I know you're probably like who the hell is Gweni Poo! LOL. I kind of make up nicknames for some of my favorite music artists and celebrities. So Gwen Stefani's nick name is Gweni Poo. Don't you just love her?.....I'm not really into the whole celebrity prego news but, I'm only posting this because it's my girl Gwen. So again, Gwen Stefani just had a boy! He's her second child. She named him Zuma Nesta Rock. Zuma Poo weighed 8 lbs and 5 ounces.

From One Writer to Another

2008-08-22T00:36:00.003-04:00

You guys know that I get really excited when I see people making it happen. Especially, when they have some of the same goals and dreams as I do. When I witness the success of others I get really inspired and I also get a burst of energy to get on my shit. I just received an email regarding a book release celebration for Monica Marie Jones. So congrats on your new release girl! She's also a writer from Detroit, that I had the wonderful opportunity to meet and interview earlier this year. Her new release is titled Floss.
If you'd like to find out more information about this book you can check out her myspace page. It's also on Amazon. I would put the info to her celebration on here but, I'm not sure if it's an open event or not. I'm assuming that it is because most writers want any and everybody to know about their work but, to be safe I won't post it. If I find out that it is in fact an open celebration then I'll post the info closer to the date! Again, congrats Monica! Keep pushing the pen.

Great News For Solo Fans

2008-08-22T00:15:00.004-04:00

For all of you Sol-Angel and The Hadley Street Dreams fans check out the listening party on Interscope. I've already heard the majority of the album and what I've heard so far I absolutely love it to death. I could like kiss Solange for putting this album out. It's such a breath of fresh air and listening to her just makes me vibe and write songs of my own. I think I know what album will be getting me through completing my book too.

So far my favorite tracks are:

T.O.N.Y.
6 O'Clock Blues
God Given Name
Champagne Chronic Night Cap
I Decided

Yah Biiish Yah!

2008-08-20T23:30:00.003-04:00

Ok. Like am I the only one noticing the tabloids being nice to Britney Spears now? I was in Walmart a few days ago helping my little sister shop for school supplies and when we got to the checkout I noticed that the tabloid magazines actually had nice things to say about Britney. Also today I noticed that MSN's Celebrity Buzz had some positive coverage of Brit. Like 5 minutes ago they were all dogging her and aiding to her demise. I'm just thinking if I was Britney Spears I'd tell them all in the words of Soulja Boi, "Yah Bitch Yah! Get Out My Face! Get Out My Face" LMAO!

Website Update

2008-08-20T22:54:00.002-04:00

I took a few minutes out today to update my website. So feel free to check it out!
You can view it here or on the check it out link.

I'm Sick of Bullshit Journalism

2008-08-20T22:12:00.005-04:00

If you guys didn't know, initially Journalism was my major until I changed it to Communications but, I am still a journalist at heart. I've been writing every since my elementary school started a newspaper. So far in my collegiate career I've taken enough journalism and ethics classes to know what's real journalism and what isn't. I know this stuff goes on all of the time but, it still pisses me off when I see it. I just want to write newspapers like WTF? Didn't your staff take some of the same classes that I did?.............I did my DAILY reading today of the Detroit Free Press and on the front page there is an article regarding our Wayne County prosecutor and how her house is in foreclosure. Like this isn't fucking news people! Who gives a fuck? All I'm concerned about is how Kym Worthy is going to prosecute my no good for nothing ass mayor. I could care less about her personal business and I'm sure a lot of other readers feel the same. So SMH to the Detroit Free Press! Now if they want to continue to publish bullshit news like this then I'd suggest they add a gossip blog to their website.

Trading Hair for Health

2008-08-20T16:51:00.003-04:00

Check out my hair tips in Clutch Magazine for exercising! You can read them here.

Just Because I'm a Clown

2008-08-19T23:07:00.003-04:00

I saw these posted on the Detroit Free Press Website so I decided to poke fun and post them here too. I actually saw the first two before some where but, the last stop sign one is brand new to me. What's funny is this stop sign is located not too far from where I use to live. LOL Don't mind the busted windows in that abandoned warehouse. I use to stay in a loft down the street from the building and the whole area was an old industrial area but, the loft was really nice (cosmetically, the owners weren't).

Kickin' It With F.U.

2008-08-19T16:05:00.004-04:00

Tomorrow morning I'll be kicking it with F.U. on "The Insomnia Hour". If you didn't know F.U. is the author of one of my favorite blogs, YeahISaidItAndWhat.Blogspot.com. She also has her own radio show called "The F.U. Hour". So don't miss this show! It's Wednesday, Aug 20th at 1AM Est. You can tune in by logging onto BlogTalkRadio.com/TheInsomniaHour. If you want to call in and talk to us live then call 718-506-1988. You can also hit us up in the chat room. Again, don't miss this show because you're in for a treat. We will be talking about everything under the sun! If you want to know all of the juiciest juice in the celeb and entertainment world, F.U. is the person to go to! Her "taking no hostages and holding no prisoner" personality will also have you rolling! So don't miss this!

Whatever

2008-08-19T15:20:00.002-04:00

It's crazy how things never tend to go how you want them to. I use to tell myself to stop expecting stuff and just go with the flow because 9 times out of 10 things will NOT go how you expect them to. That's fine too because it's just called life. I'm seriously about to stop getting bent out of shape about things. Especially the ones that I have no control over. For instance, I had been gone since Friday then I came home last night to some of my things moved without my prior knowledge. Nothing irks me more than to come home to my shit being moved without me even being notified. Especially business shit. Then when stuff comes up missing nobody knows what the fuck happened. Usually, when this happens I'll bitch and cuss for about a good 10-15 minutes to make it known that I'm pissed. Last night was different. I asked about my stuff, got my answer, grabbed my ipod, and took my ass in the basement until I cooled off. What's funny is all it took was that little amount of time, some music, isolation, and then I was fine. Until the next morning I realized that more of my shit was missing. Again, I didn't pitch a fit like I use to. It's like why? Why get more upset than what I already am. My shit still wasn't going to magically reappear so fuck it. Whatever! Also, why do other people get all bent out of shape about your business? Like I know some people care about you, especially family but, if they don't have to walk in your shoes why care? Also, if I'm not bent out of shape about something I have to deal with why get your blood pressure all up? It makes no sense at all. Well I wont say that because I know some people just really care and get worried but, if I'm not worried then I don't want anyone else to worry. I honestly can't worry about shit because it's not healthy for me mentally. I know how I can get. I'm not trying to go there so therefore I'm going to be nonchalant as hell. Not to the point to where nothing matters but, I'm not gonna be getting bent out of shape over life.

M.I.A. Linked To Terrorist Group: Terrorism Smerrorism

2008-08-19T14:51:00.005-04:00

Thanks to Clutch for this info but, it's really nothing new to me. A Sri Lankan/American hip-hop artist named DeLon, questions M.I.A. for using images that represent the terrorist group, The Liberation Tiger Tamils of Eelam (LTTE). Now I'm not going to sit up here and say that I know a whole lot about LTTE besides what I read on wikipedia but, I will say this: a lot of groups or organizations that are labeled as terrorists are simply groups who are fighting for their country, their people, their freedom, and for what's right in their minds. The Black Panthers were labeled as terrorists and they were just doing for their people what the government wouldn't. Now,I'm not just a person who listens to music for the beats. When I listen to music I listen to EVERYTHING! I listen to the beats, the instruments, the lyrics, and I even listen out for samples. I pay attention to ad libs and again pretty much everything. When I first heard M.I.A.'s music I already knew that she was a freedom fighter. A lot of her lyrics are what people would call radical. I absolutely have no problem with it. I actually love it. Her lyrics and choice to speak out about a lot of world issues and issues in her country are actually a huge part of why I like her, besides the fact that she's just cute, unique, her own person, and her songs make my head bob. I wouldn't say that these accusations are far fetched but, I'm not going to stop listening to her music either.

My Brush With Death Last Night

2008-08-17T16:00:00.005-04:00

WARNING! DO NOT CONTINUE TO READ IF YOU HAVE A WEAK STOMACH OR YOU CAN'T HANDLE BLUNTNESS LOL.

If you guys didn't know I do NOT eat pork or beef. The only type of meat that I usually consume is chicken, turkey, or fish. I've been contemplating going vegetarian since forever now but, I haven't quite made that transformation. I honestly don't think I will. Well people my mother had purchased some frozen white castles about a month ago from the grocery store which my greedy ass decided to have a taste even though I hadn't eaten beef in about maybe 6 or 7 years now. Sidenote:These packaged frozen White Castles come in twos. While over my mom's house I'd warm me up some and magically my stomach agreed. I had no problems. Last night on my way home my honey and I decided to stop at White Castles. I figured since I had the frozen White Castles with no problem that I'd be fine ordering White Castles from the actual place. I was starving so I ordered 4 Cheeseburgers along with some cheese sticks. When I got home I took the very fresh and warm WCs out of the bag and devoured each and every one of my 4. I was honestly full around 2 but, I proceeded to smash the other 2 because I absolutely hate waisting food. I think after I ate I curled up in some covers, and got a lil zzz on the couch while I was supposed to be watching Cool Runnings. Once the movie went off I proceeded to hop in the bed. Maybe about an hour later I woke up and my stomach was hurting. I immediately felt the need to puke. So I rushed into the bathroom and yea I puked. I puked twice. All I saw was devoured White Castles and the cheese chunks from the cheese sticks. I'm quite sure you guys already know what else I did. So I don't have to mention that but, can you imagine doing that and throwing up. Like I was really fucked up. I felt like I was going to absolutely die. So yea that's what I get for being greedy and trying to devour 4 White Castle burgers knowing damn well I don't even eat beef. I definitely now have no desire to start eating beef again as well as White Castles. So all I will have is those childhood memories when White Castles use to be good and didn't make me almost die. What sucked the most too is that those White Castles were good as hell. They were fresh and hot. Oh well. It's chicken, turkey, and fish for life.

Hottest Weekend in Detroit

2008-08-16T17:11:00.006-04:00

This is the hottest weekend in Detroit! Do you want to know why? It's the hottest because two of my most favorite Detroit events take place this weekend. That is the "Dream Cruise" and the "African World Festival". For those of you that aren't from Detroit and aren't familiar with the "Dream Cruise", it is a day where you'll see nothing but classic and old school cars cruise up and down one of our main streets, Woodward Ave. Yes! Glennisha loves old school cars. I think most of all I enjoy seeing old Monte Carlos, Cultlass, Mustangs, and pretty much anything else that catches my eye. I always said that one day I am going to purchase myself a 1985 Monte Carlo. I'll probably get it painted a bright pink. I don't know about rims and all of that because I'm scared of getting robbed LOL. If I don't get an 85 I'd like to get whatever year the Monte Carlo was that Denzel was crusing in when he played in Training Day. That Monte was out cold! I guess I am a Motor City girl at heart since I'm attracted to old school cars.

Now as far as the African World Festival I love the music, the food, and the really good deals on t-shirts and purses lol. I'm particularly interested in Ethiopian food, which never seems to make it's way to the festival. I don't know why (sigh). Since I can't ever find Ethiopian food at the festival I know that I can for sure find some Jamaican food. I'm talking about jerk chicken, fricassee, beans & rice, and plantains. Yeaaa Baby! I guess I should be honest. What I look forward to the most is food! Yea I'm greedy so what! Now I haven't made it down there yet. It's like 5:30 right now. I didn't get up until 2:30 and I'm still trying to shake being lethargic but, I'll get there. I think I'll probably hit up the African World festival tomorrow since it's the last day and that's when you can the best deals. The vendors tend to bargain a lot more on the last day. Also,I know I'll catch a glance at Woodward later on.

Solange- Sandcastle Disco

2008-08-16T16:33:00.000-04:00

Openess & Sexuality

2008-08-15T03:29:00.002-04:00

I just learned about Fatman Scoop and his wife Shanda's podcast! It's really really funny and entertaining. While searching through episodes I found this one, where his wife has a "ladies night out", which was filled with nothing but, pure openess and gushing on sex. I absolutely love conversations like these. Not that I'm that open to sit in a group and air all my shit like that but, I just think that openess like this is so cool. I think that people should be a little more open and comfortable because discussions like these just seem so taboo or not that they are taboo people are just so judgmental so convos like this don't take place. I think we need to be less judgmental and if we were people wouldn't be so scared to talk and gush. So check it...

And The Birds Start Singing...

2008-08-14T15:22:00.007-04:00

It's about time Christine Beatty came to her senses! I can bet you any amount of money that the presence of Kwame Kilpatrick's wife, Carlita in court the other day pushed this decision. Beatty has now said that she will testify against Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick as long as she gets immunity. I guess Beatty says she's tired of being the other woman LOL! This is extremely hilarious to me but, I am glad that Beatty finally woke up and smelled the coffee. If I was her I would tell it all! (source)

Musiq Gets Crunk???

2008-08-14T14:25:00.002-04:00

Now Musiq Soulchild is one of my favorite artists. I love me some crunk music but, I never would have expected it to come from my boy Musiq. I guess I'm just use to the music that he regularly produces but, also like Jill Scott said you don't have to be put into a box!

What Is The Big Deal???

2008-08-13T12:56:00.011-04:00

I got tired of reading the many rants and raves in the blog world regarding Beyonce's Loreal ad and now Serena's Men's Health cover. Anybody that knows anything about photography knows that a raw picture is almost never used for anything, especially when it comes to magazine covers, spreads, and ads. So what is the big damn deal about Beyonce's Loreal Ad and Serena Williams Men's Health Cover? I know Black folks may feel offended about lightening a Black woman's skin or slimming down her curves but, people it's done all of the time. It's a part of photography. Thats what goes on when it comes to modeling. It's called editing and retouching. Black models aren't the only ones getting this done to their pictures people. Also, I'll be brutally honest Serena and her sister ALWAYS looks hit to me. I honestly don't see what men see in them, besides their so called muscular body I guess. When I saw her photos for Men's Health I thought this was the best the sista's ever looked in my book. She looks absolutely fabulous. So whatever editing they did, it did Serena some major justice. They need to do it all the time because again Serena always looks busted. I know some men aren't going to agree with me but, whatever. Also, as far as the Beyonce ad has anyone ever thought about the fact that Beyonce tans and wears bronzers. Beyonce is fair skinned. Look at her mother Tina, and even her nephew Juelz. Her creole heritage definitely shows in her family. So when you see pictures of Beyonce looking her true color people get nervous and think she's been photoshopped. I don't because Beyonce has never been brown skin besides when she's airbrushed, bronzed, or tanned. So get a grip people. Again, when you see Bey looking all brown and bronzed it's called MAKEUP and it's also called " I got millions of fucking dollars so I stay at the beach getting tanned". Another thing is anything that Beyonce's face is on is going to sell so they don't need to do anything to her face to gain dollars. Also, Beyonce has been modeling for Loreal for a long time now, like do you actually think all of a sudden they're going to try to purposely lighten her as if she's too dark? Come on now! Did anyone ever think that maybe in all of Bey's old ads for Loreal she was wearing a bronzer or something? Loreal is a makeup company! Anywho, you can use a picture of Beyonce on her worst day and shit is still going to sell so, I'll just say this Black folks don't get your panties and drawers in a bunch so fast without thinking about all of the factors. I know because of everything we've went through as a race we can sometimes be a bit nervous, suspicious, and a bunch of other stuff but, sometimes it's just really not that deep.

Check it Out....

2008-08-13T12:35:00.003-04:00

A blog sister of mine, Skinny Black Girl has just revamped her online magazine, Polished Cleveland. It's dope as hell. Even if you aren't from Cleveland you have to check this out! You all know that I'm a journalism and media fanatic. So I try to stay on top of new magazines and such, especially the really fly ones. This one, I like, I like! The graphics are super duper dope! I just love the entrepreneur section! I'm an entrepreneur so I gotta love that. BTW, Detroit needs one of these magazines. We need something like this to spruce us up and focus on the positive. You can check this out by clicking on the picture or by just typing http://www.polishedcleveland.com/ into your web browser. Big ups to Skinny Black Girl for this mag! I'm really looking forward to seeing this venture blow through the roof!

I Just Love Solo

2008-08-13T12:15:00.003-04:00

Ok. So Solange was performing in DC at the Stone Soul Picnic over this past weekend and out of no where a man just walks up on stage and started straight clowning lol. Security rushed over to walk him off but, Solange hollered "Let him stay". She then pulled him towards her and started shaking what Tina gave her. Then security tried to get him off stage again and Solange says "He aint hurting nobody" and keeps going on with the show. She even asked the audience to give it up for him at the end. Cute! I like to see artists not all stuck up. Somebody else probably would have started tripping and made big deal out of ole dude. I guess it was all of out love and fun!

Thanks to Necole Bitchie for this one.

More Detroit Embarrassment

2008-08-11T19:25:00.005-04:00

Ok. So I was just reading a post at one of my favorite blogs, The P.O.S.H. Life and I ran across this flier from an old party here in Detroit that stated Light Skin Women get free entry all night and that it was a "Light Skin Libra Birthday Bash. I was hella embarrassed to go to this blog and see this flier that was from my hometown. When I first saw it I noticed the club, "The Apt", which I knew we had one in Detroit but, I didn't think it was the one in Detroit. Then I noticed the address and was like damn! How fucking embarrassing. I'm not even sure if the author of Posh is from "The D". If the author isn't and found that flier I'm even more embarrassed. I know that the whole light skin vs. dark skin issue still exists in the Black community as well as other ethnicities as well but, I don't even give it any air time because it's non-existent in my life. I usually don't even fully read posts pertaining to the issue because I feel like it's so old and ignorant but, I guess it's still relevant in some people's lives. For me to see this flier, only dated back to 2007, all I can say is wow. I can't believe someone would actually host a "Light Skin" party and base free entry off of skin color. I wish I could have been a fly on the wall at this event just to see how many people went for that mess. I know a lot of people actually did and fell into the whole "I'm light skin act". So sad. I never really liked "The APT" anyway because it was too small and the parties held there were just not "my type". It's actually called "Club Pure" now. I'm not sure if it's under management or what. This club always has a new name like every year but, I will never be back there for the simple fact that the owner would even condone of party of such ignorance and mess. I'm sure a lot of people thought it was out of pure fun but, please. I can't imagine myself getting to the door and possibly one of my friends getting in for free and then they tell my brown-skin ass "oh you have to pay you're not light skin". It would honestly bring back years of pain that my race has went through. Knowing myself I'd probably protest, make a scene, and tell everyone not to go in just like I did at the IHOP on Jefferson a few years ago when a young Black man that was in front of me was searched but, a white man that went in before him wasn't. Yes yall. I said searched at IHOP. That's how it is in Detroit. You can't even have pancakes and eggs for breakfast without being frisked. I still can't believe that incident even took place at IHOP. The security guard wasn't white either, he was Black. That makes it even worse. Anywho, I'm suppose to be working and this bit of ignorance has gotten me off track, so now I'll get back to it.

Mark Your Calendars***>Tales Not Sales

2008-08-11T18:09:00.003-04:00

Critical Moment & Think Girl are presenting "Tales Not Sales"! It's an afternoon of fun, music, and relaxation. It takes place Sunday, August 24, 2008 from 12 noon until 5pm on Belle Isle. The exact location is TBD. It's asked that everyone bring a picnic lunch and beverage.

For more information, please call 586.8993346 or 586.601.5810

As activists, we all know how hard and stressful it is planning the revolution.

So, let’s all take a day – leaving our pamphlets and flyers at home – to unwind, connect, and have fun with like-minded, progressive people!

Thank You

2008-08-11T02:50:00.003-04:00

Thanks to everybody who tuned in to my show this morning for the dedication to Bernie Mac & Isaac Hayes! Thanks to everyone who called in as well. It's greatly appreciated and it makes the show a better show. Without you it would be boring lol. I get bored on air too yall, when I don't get callers. I still can't believe Bernie is gone. It's crazy. I guess when someone is your favorite even if you haven't met them or if you don't know them personally it really hurts. Like I actually cried yesterday and today while watching some old clips on youtube. I kind of debated playing a lot of Bernie's clips on the show because of the vulgar language but, I was like what the hell! I've never had a chance to see him live and I never will be able to so fuck it. "I ain't scared of you muthafuckas"...........This was suppose to be a thank you post and I'm still ranting and raving about the loss but, it's all good. R.I.P. I also want to say Thank You for the readers here because we are past the 2000 mark! Thanks to everyone who actually comments too! I love comments!They let me know if anybody really gives a damn about what I write lol. Thanks for hitting up the shout box too! It really means a lot to me. It also keeps me going. Sometimes I think like "nobody's reading this crap" but, you guys do and it makes me feel good. Also, later on today I will be a guest on "The F.U. Hour"! So tune in at 8:00pm EST ( http://blogtalkradio.com/thefuhour). If you have questions or comments you can call in at (347) 215-9949. Shout out to my girl F.U. over at "Yeah I Said It And What". I can't wait to politic it with her tonight! So don't miss the show. Again, Thanks to my readers, listeners, and callers! MUAH!

Unbelievable Weekend

2008-08-10T20:30:00.003-04:00

I feel a little better today but, I swear this weekend was real funky .I just found out that we lost Isaac Hayes this weekend as well. What is really good? We lost two very talented men this weekend. Isaac was 65 years old. He was found unresponsive near a treadmill and was pronounced dead an hour later at Baptist East Hospital in Memphis. The cause of death is unknown at this time.

Huhhhhhhhhhhh

2008-08-09T21:46:00.002-04:00

What an emotional freakin weekend. It's Saturday but, I'm ready for this weekend to end. Not that weekends mean anything to me anymore because I make my own schedule but, I'm really not digging this one at all. Friday was boring and sad. Saturday began with the sadness from Saturday, then even more once I heard about Bernie Mac, then after that I found out that my Grandmother had to be admitted back to the hospital. My emotions are all over the place right now and I'm trying my best not to make my way to the gas station for cigs. I'm sick of being in the house. I'm sick of my current situation. I'm sick of fake ass family and friends. Right about now, I'm sick of crying. 2 days in a row. This is NOT good. I'm trying to fight it but, depression is starting to kick in. I guess I'll be back underneath my covers avoiding the world....So if ya don't hear from me, you know why...

Very Sad Day

2008-08-09T09:55:00.005-04:00

I already had a very sad night and this morning I woke up to find out that one of my favorite comedians, Bernie Mac is dead. He died at 50 years old in Chicago's Northwestern Hospital. He had been hospitalized for pneumonia but, his cause of death has not been confirmed.Mac had sarcoidosis ,which is a chronic disease that can inflame tissue, particularly in the lungs. His publicist, Danica Smith said that his pneumonia was unrelated to his sarcoidosis and it had been in remission since 2005. I am extremely upset and sad. This man was welcomed in my living room on several occasions back to back. "The Bernie Mac Show" was extremely hilarious. Bernie's voice alone and demeanor made me laugh. Bernie Mac was my favorite of "The Original Kings of Comedy". Much love to Steve Harvey, Cedric The Entertainer, and D.L. Hughley but, Bernie Mac was The Orignal King of Comedy! He will truly be missed!

I'm hella fuckin bored on a Friday night

2008-08-08T22:35:00.003-04:00

Shoot me already...So Renaissance Black Woman jacked this from Myspace and I jacked this from her. I only do these when I'm dead bored.

How many people have you kissed in 2008 that actually meant something?
1, I've only kissed one person. Oh and my dog and I have this nose kissing thing. I can't
do the dog kisses in the mouth but, we nose mush lol but, this says ppl.

Were you happy when you woke up today?
Yea

Do you hate the last person you kissed?
No

What are you listening to right now?
Some bullshit my sister is listening to on tv

Have you ever liked somebody and never told them?
Yes

What would I find if I looked UNDER your bed?
Shoes, Shoes, and Shoes

What are you wearing?
Green top & Green cargo carpi pants

Are you texting anyone right now?
Nope

Do you like anyone right now?
yea

Have you ever kissed someone and never saw them again?
No

Have you ever thought about getting your nose pierced?
It is pierced and I love it. I think it's time for a different color nose ring now.

What can't you wait for?
More money to start rolling in

Have your parents ever smoked?
Yea

Do you want someone back in your life?
Yes, My Grandaddy. I so wish he could hold me right now.

Who was the last person who called you?
Dominique

Are you good at giving directions?
Yea I think so. If only ppl would listen and stop acting brand new

Would your parents be mad if you got pregnant /got someone pregnant?
I don't know.

Rent a movie or go to movies?
Rent

What did you eat last?
A turkey sandwich, not by choice

Has anyone told you they missed you lately?
Nope (sigh)

Is your ex still in your life as a friend?
Hell No!

Are you wearing any clothes that don't belong to you?
Nope

Would you ever steal someones boyfriend or girlfriend?
Nope, that's for losers

Mountains or the beach?
beach

When was the last time you cried?
Today

Who's someone you miss?
My Grandaddy

How many times have you been in love?
I'm in love now

How many times have you had your heart broken?
Too many times

Do you hate people who are obsessed with things like High School Musical, Hannah Montana, and The Jonas Brothers?
Um that's their business who cares. I like what I like and others like what they like

Have you ever spread a rumor about someone?
Never started one but I sho did spread the word

Did you French kiss before you were 16?
Yea. 7th grade.

Who is the first person you think of when someone asks you who you like?
IDK people don't ask me that.

Have you ever liked someone who all your friends hate?
Yup

Do you prefer to call or text someone?
TXT, I really hate talking on the phone

Were you bad in high school?
I wouldn't say "bad"

Would you take any of your ex's back?
No

Do you cry over girls/boys?
Who hasn't?

At what age did you start noticing the opposite gender?
Ummm IDK 4rth grade I think

Are you happy with your love situation?
Yea

Last boy/girl to hurt you?
IDK

Would you fail your drug and alcohol test?
Nope

Who's your favorite person to cuddle with?
who else

Florida Man Threatens to Kill Obama

2008-08-08T14:13:00.004-04:00

The man that threatened to assassinate presidential hopeful was held without bail in Florida on Thursday because he threatened to kill Senator Barak Obama as well as President George W. Bush. His words were,"If he gets elected, I'll assassinate him myself. Obama would be the first black U.S. president if elected." A witness also said that he overheard him saying he hated Bush and wanted to put a bullet through his head. Police found an ample cache of ammunition, including armor piercing bullets, and a handgun in his sport utility vehicle and the Miami hotel room where he was staying while attending a bail bondsman's course. BTW, It is legal to possess armor-piercing bullets in Florida.He was arrested by the secret service in Miami,Florida. (source)

Well I knew this was coming. I think we all knew that some idiot would do this. It's NOT at all a surprise to me although, it's very sad.

Shut Up and Sit Down

2008-08-08T01:19:00.005-04:00

Ok. I don't like to judge but, after watching Keyshia Cole's reality show and reading different news regarding her and her family I've came to conclusion that Neffie and Frankie seem to like to live off of Keyshia's fame. Now, I know they were on her reality show so that does make them reality celebs now but, truly if it wasn't for Keyshia NOBODY would know who the hell they were. Also, I'm aware that they do get paid for doing those reality shows but, I'm quite sure that the majority of the money that they spend is Keyshia's. That's cool too. If I was rich I'd most definitely look out for fam, my mother especially. If I was Neffie or Frankie (especially Neffie because she has little ones) I'd be using my connects and my sister's pull to do something for myself. Like instead of eating off Keyshia's plate why not use the money from the show to start your own business? Whatever talents they have they should use them to the best of their abilities because they definitely can get some strings pulled now. One of the reasons that Keyshia moved Neffie is was so that she could get on her feet and get herself together for her children...The way that Neffie and Frankie act just makes me want to say how about yall just get jobs of your own and stop stunting off of Keyshia's ends.... You know what I could be wrong, maybe their trying to do the "New York (Flavor of Love) thing. She pretty much acted as crazy as possible and landed her own show. So maybe that's what they're trying to do. Maybe they think if they keep clowning they'll land their own show??? I don't know but, I just got a hold of this video of Keyshia leaving a restaurant and Neffie and Frankie pretty much purposely staying afterward to give the Paparazzi's a show. It's quite clear too that Frankie was drunk! I mean she said," I Fuck With Dinosaurs that's why my bones are small". That has had to be the funniest shit I've ever heard in my life!... I'm going to have to give Neffie and Frankie the "Shut up and sit the fuck down" award because they're are truly camera and attention whores.

Here's the video of Keyshia leaving...

Here's the video of Neffie and Frankie straight clowning...

Thanks to Blackarazzi.com for these.

Don't Drop The Soap Kwame!

2008-08-07T15:38:00.006-04:00

I woke up this morning to find out that my mayor has landed himself behind bars! I'm glad about it because he is a person that's extremely arrogant and thinks nothing will happen to him just because he's the mayor. I would have thought that this retard would have learned his lesson from the assault incident but, it's obvious he didn't. He violated his bond by taking a trip to Windsor, Canada (I just went last night, had a blast! LOL) without informing the judge and getting consent! He claims he went to try to seal the "tunnel deal" because he didn't want to lay off 1,000 city workers. Whatever Kwame! You're an arrogant fuck and you think your invincible. Enjoy your concrete slab! Now, of course Mr. Kilpatrick will be tomorrow morning's topic on my radio show, The Insomnia Hour! So Detroiters, Michiganders, Americans, Politicians, etc. Call in and comment (718)506-1988. BlogTalkRadio.com/theinsomniahour. This Friday at 3AM EST.

Monica's The Single Premiers Tonight

2008-08-05T19:29:00.003-04:00

My girl, Monica's new reality tv show premiers tonight. Hopefully I don't forget about it because I really want to see it. Monica has been my girl ever since, "Miss Thang" and I still bump that album as if it's brand new. The only thing is I believe that this Peachtree TV network is only in ATL and surrounding areas. So hopefully they'll air it online! If not I guess I'll have to catch it on YouTube!

Self Update

2008-08-05T15:35:00.003-04:00

Lately, I've been busy, busy, busy. I'm so happy that I am, though. It's much needed and so is the cash flow!Things are starting pick back up speed again. My hair clientele has extremely increased and has been getting my insomniac ass up very early in the morning so the night owl stuff is slowly dwindling. I've picked up a few new writing clients as well that I'm grateful for. I also picked up a new graphic design client! I still have my other writing commitments as well. I'll admit I've fallen short in a few places because I'm juggling so much right now but, I'm 2 seconds from being back on track. It's funny because I had been applying for a part-time job at almost every damn place since business got slow and I haven't seemed to get any calls back. Maybe, it's a good thing. If I would have found a job my schedule wouldn't be as flexible for my hair clients, I'd probably miss out on money (cash money too), and I damn sure wouldn't be able to do all that I'm doing now. My Blog Talk Radio show is on a roll. You can listen to me every MWF @ 3AM EST.(BlogTalkRadio.com/TheInsomniaHour). I have some interesting interviews coming up. I promise I'm going to try my best to make each show better, and more interesting. I'll actually be getting interviewed on "The F.U. Hour", Monday, August 11 @ 8:30pm EST.... Most importantly I'm happy right now and I love that I can make my own schedule. It's the bomb! Let's just hope this roll remains steady and gets even better so I don't have to keep applying for part-time jobs .

Good Black Movies

2008-08-04T18:47:00.006-04:00

I'm sitting here watching Oxygen and "The Best Man" is on. This happens to be one of my favorite movies along with "Love Jones", "The Brothers", "The Wood", "Brown Sugar", and "Love & Basketball". I guess I'm a fan of that old black cast, Nia Long, Morris Chestnut,Larenz Tate, Isaiah Washington, Taye Diggs, Terrance Howard, Sanaa Lathan, Omar Epps, Regina Hall, and Malinda Williams, and Bill Bellamy. All of those movies all came out between 1997-2002. It seems like there hasn't been any good Black movies since, or maybe I'm just missing those same cast members in the same flicks. Now, Tyler Perry is doing his thing. I love the movies that he makes as well as his plays but, yea I'm missing Nia, Larenz , Morris, Taye, Sanaa, and Omar the most. I need somebody to create another film and cast these people. If not I guess I'll be watching my old favorites over and over again. Don't get me wrong I like all types of movies and other actors and actresses besides the ones I mentioned but, it's nothing like seeing an all Black cast. Especially, with the eye candy of Omar, Larenz, Morris, Taye, and Terrance. It's something about Black movies that make me feel warm. I feel like I can relate to at least one of the characters or I feel like I know someone that relates to a few of the characters....BTW, Morgan Freeman was in a horrible accident last night and he's now in serious condition. I hope he recovers because every movie that man has been in has been a banger!I guess I'll go ahead and shout out the rest of my favorite black actors and actresses: Tamala Jones, Taraj P. Henson, Don Cheadle, Jada Pinkett- Smith, Will Smith, Lisa Raye, Essence Atkins, Tracey Ellis Ross, Rachel True, Mos Def, Queen Latifah, Denzel Washington, Angela Bassett, Halle Berry, Wendy Robinson, Forest Whitaker, and a host of other super talented folk!

New Solange: Fuck The Industry

2008-08-03T16:53:00.004-04:00

My girl, Solange just released a new track called Fuck the Industry (Signed Sincerely). You can listen here. The song basically talks about how she's not mainstream and she doesn't give a fuck! Anywho, I love Solange (and no I didn't just jump on the bandwagon, I actually went out and bought Solo Star years ago) can't wait til the new album drops.

My Granny's a "G" @ 73

2008-08-03T15:29:00.004-04:00

Yesterday was my Granny's 73rd birthday! My mother, my uncle, and I threw her a party. It turned out really nice so I guess all of the running around and stress was worth it. We actually didn't think my Granny would be able to hang at her party because it's only been a week since she's been out of the hospital but, once again she was "a G". She stayed with all of her guests until everyone left. This particular birthday was very special to my Grandmother and all of us because just a few months ago we wasn't sure she would make it because she was diagnosed with kidney cancer. We were very blessed because my grandmother had surgery, and is now recovering like a champ. I can't wait for her see 74 years next year!

14 Mil For Brangelina Baby Pics

2008-08-02T01:40:00.003-04:00

A person involved in the negotiations for pictures of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie's newborn twins says the rights have fetched $14 million.The person asked not to be named because he was not authorized to release the figure. People magazine scored the photos in a joint deal with the London-based Hello! magazine, and the two will split the bill. (source)

I guess selling pictures is a part of celebrity lifestlye and it doesn't phase many celebrities but, I mean come on. When does the baby and wedding picture selling stop? As far as the children, they have no say. How does anyone know if they want their pictures plastered all over tabloids and magazine covers since they can't speak? Again, I guess this is nothing to celebrities but, is there ever a time when celebs will just say no and vow to have an inch of privacy? I guess Halle is the only one that feels this way. Don't these celebs have enough money? Do they really need to exploit their children for millions of dollars that they already have in the bank? Maybe exploitation is a little far fetched because they're just pictures but, still.

The Insomnia Hour @ 3AM

2008-08-01T02:04:00.002-04:00

I'm getting ready to go on air in an hour! That's 3AM Eastern Standard Time. I have a really interesting and much needed topic to discuss today. I'll be talking about how most families no longer sit down and have dinner these days! Call in and let me know how you feel, (718)506-1988. I also will talk about another RnB singer's new reality show, Michigan's first Green Car Dealership, and Ludacris' very controversial song titled Politics (Obama Is Here). So don't miss out! To tune in log on to http://blogtalkradio.com/theinsomniahour. Don't be afraid to call in and comment (718-506-1988) or at least join the chat! Peace! Thanks in advance to all the listeners and supporters. I really appreciate it. :)

Something's Got To Give

2008-08-01T00:25:00.003-04:00

I absolutely do not like posting videos back to back but, I had to post this. I just left my girl, FU's blog and saw this. So thanks to F.U. for putting me up on this! This song is dope and real as hell! Plus, I'm diggin the collabo! Mary J. & Big Boi! Two very hot artists, although I would have liked to heard Andre 3000 on this joint too! Music with substance! I FREAKING LOVE IT!

Sumthin's Gotta Give
by yardie4lifever2

Slim- So Fly

2008-08-01T00:11:00.002-04:00

Now I love me some 112 but, I don't think they're dropping an album anytime soon so Slim will just have to do for now. I love this song!

The Boondocks Season 2 Episode 14 "Hunger Strikes"

2008-07-30T22:45:00.000-04:00

This is the full show that was banned from tv! I don't know if I'm late or not but, I just discovered it so here it is...

An Emotional Moment

2008-07-30T22:24:00.003-04:00

I just found out that a friend of mine, Violeta just had her final paper, "Exploring the Afro-Latino Presence: the Panamanian Experience in Michigan" published in Academia. I don't know why but, I always get super excited when friends of mine or people I know make their dreams come true. It also gives me great inspiration to keep pushing to accomplish my goals and such. I'm so happy right now that I can cry. I guess I just love the fact that I have friends who are actually very talented and creative. I'm also kind of repeating what Vio said in her note on Facebook but, I'm glad that I don't just know a bunch of bird brains, sack chasers, skeezers, bumbs, and that sort as friends. Although, my friends are very few. Anyway be on the look out for Vio because she's also a writer for Ill Magazine, Vida Afro Latina, as well as my magazine (whenever i get the funds to publish it :().........Vio I hope you don't mind but, I straight stole your picture from Facebook. I figured that it coincided with the content since you took this in Panama! LOL

Fried Chicken???

2008-07-30T13:28:00.004-04:00

I'm Black and I don't eat fried chicken a lot. LOL! I usually eat fried chicken like once every 6 months or so. The grease tends to make me almost throw up. So if you ever come to my house and get lucky you'll taste some of my famous honey baked chicken wings, or other various baked flavors. You will almost never come to my house and catch me frying chicken. I guess I've never really been a fan of the grease popping either.... Now every since a damn trip to Southern Fires w/ my mom, earlier this month I've been pheaning for some fried chicken. If you're from Detroit then you know what's up when it comes to Southern Fires. When my mother and I went I tried their fried chicken for the very first time. I usually always ordered the broasted chicken. I've never in my life tasted such good sweet fried chicken. My left overs that I took home were even still good after putting them in the microwave. Then to top it off, this month I also visited one of my uncles. He happened to order some chicken from the Chicken Shack! It's funny because this again, was my first time ever getting chicken from "The Chicken Shack". I kind of felt a little un-Black and embarrassed that I had never had any before. What do you know, it was hot and good as hell. It was so good that my greedy ass had 4 pieces. These weren't little wing dings either.I'm talking about 2 Thighs, and 2 Legs. So, that was super greedy. I'll admit "The Chicken Shack" wasn't good reheated but, when we first got it and it was smoking hot it was the bomb diggity boom boom! Yes, I had to add boom boom. That's how good it was. Now I haven't had any fried chicken since those two instances but, now I'm pheaning for some. I'm kind of upset because I don't eat fried chicken like that. I'm tryimg to shed a few lbs too but, I don't know. I don't think I'll be satisfied until I find my way back to "The Chicken Shack" or down Jefferson on my way to Southern Fires.

Listen To Me at 3 AM

2008-07-29T20:49:00.003-04:00

Alright. I'm done with the practice stuff! Although, thank you all for who did listen to my practice shows on Blog Talk Radio. I have the hang of it now and I'm ready to roll.Tonight or should I say in the morning at 3AM I'll be on Live! I also have a co-host now, Sonali. So you should be in for a real treat.To listen log on to BlogTalkRadio.com/TheInsomniaHour. You can talk to us live by calling (718)506-1988. I have a real "hot seat" topic to talk about today! So if you're a night owl you most definitely want to tune in.

One of My Favorite Artists Too

2008-07-29T16:52:00.003-04:00

Amanda Diva is one of my favorite rappers but, she's also one of my favorite artists as well. She gets really dope with the paintbrush. I swear this sista is soooo talented! Check the detail!This picture is a part of an Afro Series, notice the sneakers, subway, fist, and boombox in the afro? This afro is straight New York and I love it! I love the colors too. You can read more about this painting and series on her blog.

The Fembassy

2008-07-29T16:00:00.003-04:00

Alright, I think last week I mentioned that I was starting another blog that will be strictly dedicated to female emcees! Well it's officially up and running now! So check it out! Thanks a million to Chimere for contributing!

EYE CANDY...

2008-07-29T14:05:00.003-04:00

Now all who has known me since at least high school knows that I use to be madly in love with this man. Then of course the high school celebrity crushes faded as the years went by but, oh baby Nelly most definitely still looks good and even better in my book. I just read @ Necole bitchie's blog that he i the new model for Sean Jean. Get the money! Get the money! Keep posing like this for me honey! LMAO

I'm Stumped

2008-07-29T01:03:00.003-04:00

So today was my first day ever riding on a motorcycle (I"m mad I didn't take my camera), compliments of my honey. It's funny because I'm scary as hell and I initially thought I wouldn't get over my fear. Today I put my fear aside and hopped my ass on the Kawasaki Ninja. After a few bumps, my Burtha behind flying in the air, and riding on the side of trucks on the freeway my fear turned to excitement. From about 2-5 the western suburbs it was then off downtown to ride one time around Belle Isle. I had an intermission from about 5 to 9 to take care of family business then it was back on the road until about 11. It was 8 mile to Woodward, then down Jefferson, back to Belle Isle, Greektown, and back down 8 mile, to McDonalds (Thanks idiots for putting cheese on my southern style chicken sandwich, I didn't ask for that shit), then home sweet home. Usually I'm not rolling in the bed until around 5 or 6 but, today is hella different. I know that riding a motorcycle, especially on the back of one doesn't involve any real leg work or exercise but, my ass is truly stumped. The breeze was the bomb and I guess it helped put my insomniac self to sleep. So guess what, I'm out. I wish I had more to post tonight but, I don't.

Home Births Vs. Hospital Births

2008-07-27T18:16:00.002-04:00

This past week I had a project on Home Births Vs. Hospital Births. I must say that I learned a lot and this research was extremely interesting! I had no idea that in some states it is an illegal felony for Midwives to assist in births. I'm very upset behind that because that takes away a woman's right to choose how she wants to give birth to her child. Although, I understand that safety is a huge factor but, studies have shown that PLANNED home births for healthy and low-risk pregnant mothers are safe....After doing this research I think that when honey and I decide to have children I'd like to try a home birth at least once if I am healthy and low-risk. I want to try a water birth as well.... I'm not going to say too much in this blog because I'm saving it for my upcoming column but, I will share some awesome links for all who are interested:

My Illegal Home Birth- An article by Babble Magazine
(This was a great and really interesting story)

The Big Push For Midwives
(Here you can find out about state by state regulation of midwives)

How To Find Midwifery Laws
(Go Figure)

ACOG's Statement on Home Births
(The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists)

A Bloggers Response to ACOG's Statement

Planned Home Births Are Safe
(A Fact Sheet from the Citizens for Midwifery)

Doctors Oppose Home Births
(An article by the BBC)

I have so many more sources so if you're interested just let me know!

I'm Slow Yall

2008-07-27T00:46:00.002-04:00

I'm suppose to be working but, I wondered off into the blogosphere and ended up trying to redecorate my blog. As you can see I changed the color scheme. I just discovered the different template options LOL. I never knew that we had choices! I feel like a total retard for just noticing this stuff. I don't know about this new layout though. I think I'm going to change it but, what I really want to find out is how to get page elements on the left and right side of the blog. This right side is getting a little cluttered....I didn't really have time to make any posts Saturday (even though it's still Saturday to me LOL). Sorry, I had a hair client, had to visit my granny, and other writing work to finish....Anyway I'm sure once I finish my work I'll find myself back on here posting something. Much Luv.

Nas On Colbert

2008-07-25T23:38:00.001-04:00

I Found Myself Defending Uncle Luke & Porn

2008-07-25T22:50:00.005-04:00

Wow. I'm not really trying to put another blogger out there but, after commenting on her post I felt the instant need to blog about this. I found a link regarding Uncle Luke and his new marriage and reality television show. If you don't know who Uncle Luke or if you've forgotten, he's probably considered to be one of the nastiest men in Hip Hop and he's a former member of the group 2 Live Crew....After a few quotes from Luke, a little info on his new wife, and a brief discription of his new reality show, this was said, "I'm supposed to believe that the "Nastiest Man in Hip Hop" is now a straight laced married, family man, even while he still has his adult entertainment business? I mean really, can you look at naked women all day, doing all kind of nasty, naught things and then go home and say, "I love my wife?" And if chicky is so straight-laced why did she marry a guy in the porn industry? I'm shocked. And I will be watching. What about ya'll? Anyone going to tune for what should prove to be one of Vh-!'s most interesting Celebreality shows yet?"
Now this is this blogger's opinions and views and that's fine but, I seem to disagree. I commented on her post by saying this, "You can't judge someone just because they choose to work in the adult entertainment industry. Why does porn have to be nasty when it's just video what people do in their bedrooms all across the world everyday?"

Why can't a man be married or a family man just because he has an ADULT entertainment business? Why can't anybody (male/female) be married and have a family just because they own an adult entertainment business? I'm quite sure that the profits from that business is feeding his family and keeping a roof over their heads. I'm actually not mad at Uncle Luke. I think he's doing what he does best and making a profit. We all have our own talents and things that we are good at. How many of us actually take or use those talents to make money? Not many! I know a whole bunch of people out here who can do things really good and are just sitting on their talents. I seem to think that is silly. Also, his business is for ADULTS. He is an adult. Adults don't stop doing adult things just because they have children. That's actually the way that their children got here! I never thought that I'd say this but, I do believe that a man or woman can look at naked people do so-called (I'm going to use so-called purposely because I don't think that anything done between two CONSENTING adults is nasty-To Each It's Own) nasty things all day and still go home and love their spouses. If you have control, and if you desire to do those so-called "nasty things" with your spouse or partner then you'll be fine. Also, business is business. If Uncle Luke is smart he wouldn't mix business with pleasure.

I don't exactly know what "straight-laced" is but, who says they can't marry someone who just happens to work in the adult entertainment industry? There are a lot of quiet people out here who seem to be what some people call "closet freaks". From her post I also get the idea that just because she's a lawyer she's some type of goody two shoes or something. Are lawyers not suppose to get their freak on or like freaky things or people? LOL

I really think that a lot of people are just very close-minded when it comes to sex, sexuality, and particularly porn. I guess I'll end this post by saying "Don't knock it until you try it". LOL

BTW, I'll be trying to catch a few episodes of this show. I think it'll be quite interesting...

* In no way am I trying to demean this fellow blogger. I actually enjoy reading her blog from time to time but, I just happen to extremely disagree with this particular post and felt the need to voice my full opinion on MY blog*

Yay For M.I.A.

2008-07-25T12:19:00.003-04:00

I guess I should have posted this a while ago when I first found out but, my girl M.I.A. was a possible nominee for the 2008 MTV Video Music Awards Best Female Video category. Today is the day when they'll announce exactly which videos made the cut, so I hope my girl made it!

Mr. Mayor, What's Really Good?

2008-07-25T11:23:00.004-04:00

I guess the behavior of Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick never ceases to amaze me. What do you know ? I go to the Detroit Free Press' website this morning to find out that Kwame may possibly be facing more charges! WTF? According to the Free Press article the Michigan State Police are currently investigating whether Kwame assaulted a deputy that tried to serve a subpoena at his sister's house yesterday. If he in fact did assault this deputy, it means that he will have violated his bond. Now we all love our syblings and we don't ever want to see them get in trouble but, right now Mr. mayor has enough problems of his own. I can't believe that he would lose control and pull a stupid move such as assaulting an officer.Then again, it's being investigated so we don't actually know if it's true yet. I'm quite sure that they'd love to slap more charges on this man. Even though I think Kwame is an asshole, I bet the officer decided to be an asshole and go instigate some shit! So, we'll see how this pans out. (source)

Great News...

2008-07-25T04:05:00.003-04:00

At first when we learned of my grandmother's kidney cancer I was so depressed and scared. It wasn't until last week when one of her doctors explained to us her options that I felt good about the situation. We were aware that in most cases kidney cancer is fatal but, for some reason I just felt positive. I'm very happy that it has been positive so far. My grandmother seems to be recovering well from her surgery. Today, or yesterday technically since it's like 4 in the morning my grandmother got out of bed and walked up and down the hallway after complaining of being in so much pain. Initially we were told that she'll be able to come home Monday but, today her doctor said because she seems to be doing so well she may be able to come home early. The doctor was saying that my Grandmother overcame this really well. The cancer didn't spread at all so that was great. Instead of just removing the cancer from her kidney they actually took the whole kidney so chances are very high that the cancer won't come back again. Therefore she won't be needing any chemotherapy. Real talk, in the past few months I have totally watched my grandmother be a fucking soldier. My Granny is usually a really scary person but, I think cancer actually gave her a new attitude. Last week she was at Cedar Point riding every damn ride there was, this week she had surgery, and I'm quite sure that once she's out of the hospital she'll continue to be one of the coolest Grannys on earth.

Besides the good news with my Granny I just did my second segment of my blog talk radio show today. I think it was a little bit better than the first test show, simply because I wasn't sort of forced off air. Critiquing myself though, I need to definitely work on refraining from saying um on the air. That should never be said on air but, I seemed to have said it a million times as well as you know, and yall. Dang! My show today was filled with a lot of stereotypical phrases LOL but, it's alright I'm still learning. I did say that my blog talk radio show is also practice for me to actually become a radio personality sometime during my career. I've always wanted to be on Hot 97 one day... I'm still looking for a co-host. A few people have talked to me and said they have interest but, no commitments. So, I'm going to get back with everybody before this weekend is over and see who wants to do it for sure. The next show is actually tomorrow night. I'm ready to get the hang of this and freakin blow blog talk radio out of the water LOL. I also have some really good interviews that will be aired on the show. I do apologize too for not keeping you updated about the 7 Days, 7 Interviews but, I've decided to actually do the remainder of the interviews on the radio show. I'll still post a few transcripts here but, I definitely will have those interviews on air.

Khia- Be Your Lady

2008-07-22T23:31:00.002-04:00

Khia - "Be Your Lady" from Alika Awana on Vimeo.

I don't really like this chick because of her triffling attitude and lack of lyrical content but, I like this song and the video is cool too. I guess we see you Khia! LMAO!

I'll Be M.I.A. After Today

2008-07-22T06:41:00.004-04:00

I'm pretty sure that I'll be M.I.A. for a few days after today. Wednesday my Granny is having surgery to get her kidney removed with hopes that she'll be cancer free afterwards. I'll be right by her side @ the hospital. So I decided to leave you all with this stolen questionaire. You know the type you do when you're extremely bored and can't take your ass to sleep like I can't right now!

Last night, did you go to sleep happy?
Hell nah. As soon as I laid my ass down at 6am. My mom called.

Who was the last person you changed in front of?
My honey

Anyone told you a secret this week?
nope

What color are your nails?
They're not polished

What are you excited for?
My radio show, my upcoming projects with Clutch & Jane Doe Magazine

What is the last thing you ate?
Vanilla Wafers

What are you listening to?
Brandy- Put That On Everything

Do you like anyone?
Yea

What was the last secret you told someone?
If I Tell You It Won’t Be a Secret Anymore

Have you ever dyed your hair?
Yup, I just did yesterday. I dyed my black locs brown/blonde

Any tattoos or piercing?
Yesirrrrr! I have 5 Tatts, and 2 wholes in each ear

Where was the last place you drove to?
The beauty supply, the credit union, the health food store, and then Burger King

Do you have a good relationship with your mother?
Yep

Is there anything you’re not looking forward to?
Arthiritis acting up from all this damn air conditioning

What was the last thing you lost?
My mind

Are you happy?
I don't know

Do you continue fighting in an argument even though you're wrong?
No, I don't really like to argue but, I make my point and that's about it.

What do you want in your life right now?
Money

Who was the last person to call you?
I don't know dumb muthafuckers calling my phone private and shit

In the next 4 months what are you looking forward to the most?
Fall, Fuck this hot weather. I'm ready to rock my boots again.

Who was the last person you got into a fight with?
My ex- best friend

When was the last time you went to the beach?
The beginning of the summer and the water was cold as hell

What are you doing this weekend?
Doing Hair

What’s one song you can listen to and it will never get old?
Some Teena Marie and Rick James shit

Who is your favorite family member?
I have a few, My Mama, My Granny & Grandaddy, Mariah, Derrick , Crystal, Gilbert, Camille, Uncle Gilbert, Uncle Ricky, Uncle Ronald........I love all my fam!

What did you do yesterday?
Dyed and re-twisted my hair

Who's the next person you'll have a sleepover with?
Don’t Know

Do you care if your clothes are comfortable?
I Have To Be Comfortable

What is the nearest book to you?
Promises for students

What will you buy next?
Byata, Ms. Cherry, and Nas' albums. I really want them now but, it's tight lol

Are you bored?
Very

What are you wearing?
An old t-shirt from when I was in Pom Pon in High School

When was the last time you went swimming?
about 3-4 years ago

What's your favorite Gatorade?
That new purple g-2 stuff and the regular yellow kind

How tall are you?
5'1

Have you ever worn anything borrowed from the opposite sex?
Yea, I steal my honeys socks and t-shirts all the time

Can you sleep in jeans?
hell now

Who do you trust?
nobody

What was the last thing you laughed really hard at?
I can't remember

Where’s your best friend?
@ my house

Do you trust people easily?
Nope

Where do you want to be right now?
With My Honey or in NY

Have you ever had a sleepover with the opposite sex?
I guess

Who was last to cook for you?
Mygodamnself

Will you ever hug the last person you hugged again?
Yeah, Why Not

Have you lost any friends this year? Why?
Yup. Cause Bitches Aint' Shit

Taken or Single?
Taken…

B-Rocka Is Back

2008-07-22T06:01:00.002-04:00

Alright, I don't usually talk about this chick much but, Brandy is my girl from way back in the day! Yea all the way back to her first self-titled album, The show Thea, Moesha, Never Say Never, and all of that good stuff! It's funny too because when I was little I was tortured for the majority of my life with having to wear braids. So people use to joke and call me Moesha and when I had my braids freshly done you couldn't tell me that I wasn't her either. LMAO! I can also pull out any Brandy album and tell you exactly where I was in my life. Her last one, Aphrodisiac was really slept on but, oh baby did that album get me threw many 45 minute drives from my college back to the "The D". It also got me through the bullshit when I was young, dumb, and dealing with dip shit ass negroes. So, I must say that I'm hella excited to see my girl Brandy back. One of her new songs, "Fall" has been leaked and love it! I really freakin' love it! You can check it out here. Big ups to Young, Black, and Fabulous for putting me up on game!

Got Kids in Detroit?

2008-07-22T04:48:00.001-04:00

Michael Bell's First Cousin Tazered To Death

2008-07-21T19:39:00.005-04:00

Michael Bell, one of the Jena 6's first cousin was tazered to death. He was shocked 9 times. It was reported that he repeatedly begged for mercy. I don't even feel like getting into what probably was racially motivated or done as an act of making someone an example but, if you'd like to read more about the story you can here. Thanks to Clutch for this info.

The Wackest & Most Ignorant Video I've Ever Seen

2008-07-21T05:34:00.004-04:00

First off, I can't believe that I even made it through watching this whole video. A friend of mine posted this bullshit on facebook. I honestly can't even believe the creator of this video took the time to make such non-sense. #1 This video is titled "More Proof of Queen Latifah's Treason" and it only discusses her for about one minute. So I think that title needs to be changed. #2 It's been said a lot that Black women who dye their hair blonde or wear blonde weave are trying to be white. That's bullshit. I can't speak for all Black women that dye their hair blonde but, I can guarantee you that that mass majority are in no way shape or form trying to be white. With that said are white women who dye their hair black trying to be Black? Or what about Albinos and Mulattos? Like, what the fuck? I can't believe people actually say this and really believe this stuff. What about the women who dye their hair red, pink, purple, or blue? Who are they trying to be like because there isn't any race of people or human being on earth that naturally has these hair colors (except for some shades of red). #3 The video talks about Queen Latifah's cease in being Afrocentric. Who ever said that you have to walk around wearing red, black ,and green, and huge medallions all the time in order to be afrocentric? Also, just because a person isn't ethnocentric doesn't mean that they're trying to be someone else or that their ashamed of who they are. The last time that I checked wearing huge medallions around your neck played out in the 80's any fucking way! Does the creator of the video know about something called Growth? Just in case someone didn't know it's a lot of fucked up shit taking place in Africa right now, as well as a lot of fucked up shit took place in Africa in the past. #4 The men only church comment was hilarious. I'm not even going to really comment on that one. If you're a frequent reader then I'm sure that you already know how I feel about "The Church", "The Bible", and "Christianity" and it's sexism. #5 As far as the comments regarding Black women and feminism, GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK! I'm not going to really comment on those either because I'm so irritated it would just be more cuss words than anything. I'm sure from the first sentence you get my drift. #6 The comment about Black women complaining about the "Million Man March" and Black women tried to stop Black men from getting work done during that event. Wow. I never even heard about a group of Black women complaining about the march so I missed the memo. I'll say this, the fact that so many Black men came together and unified is definitely awesome and beautiful. I wasn't at the march so I don't know what went on there but, marching is only a form of expression. In actuality marching has never gotten anything accomplished besides pulling people together, networking, getting points across, and expression. Marching hasn't changed any laws, it hasn't paid any bills, it hasn't fed any hungry people, it hasn't stopped people from killing each other, it hasn't stopped wars, it hasn't stopped racism, it hasn't done a damn thing but, get people a little exercise. #7 Was the voice of the narrator suppose to be scary? LMAO! Was the voice suppose to make the message more believable? Get out of here! #8 The witchcraft comment was really hilarious. It never ceases to amaze me the bullshit people believe. Anyway I'm not waisting anymore time on this ignorant video. I'm mad that I let this video keep me up. I was my own my way to bed until I saw that shit. Peace. I'm going to sleep...

My Upcoming Projects

2008-07-20T22:08:00.004-04:00

I've been thinking...I really want to see femcees take over the hip hop game and I think that right now is the perfect time. Because I want to see this happen so badly, I've decided that I'm going to start a separate blog dedicated to Femcees. The blog will be updated weekly with information regarding well known and upcoming femcees' concert & show info, magazine interviews, album releases, guest appearances, and such. There will be absolutely NO GOSSIP! That means no baby daddy drama, what she wore to the grammys, who's she's dating, etc. The blog will strictly be about music, skills, and news. I'd like to have other interested bloggers participate as well. So if anyone is interested in contributing to that blog, please contact me. I've also been trying to learn more about BLOG TALK RADIO because I plan on launching my own show before July ends. Because I'm always up until the early morning, I've decided to name my show "The Insomnia Hour". I know nobody wants to just hear my ass talk so I'm looking for a co-host or two. I'm looking for someone that will bring a great balance to the show and will have great on air chemistry with me. The show will basically be an audio version of my blog. I'll discuss news, politics, music, entertainment, cultural issues, and myself. You'll also hear snippets of my favorite songs. If you're interested in being a co-host or participating int he production of the radio show then also contact me. Glennisham@Tmo.Blackberry.net

Family and Thangs

2008-07-20T00:22:00.002-04:00

So today is day 4 spent with Dad and family. I had a chance to spend the morning with the one that I love the most @ a wedding. Came home changed from my dress then dipped it over to the dinner/banquet portion of my family reunion. I was late as hell but, it was all good. This was actually the first family reunion on my father's side that I have ever attended. It's always nice to see everyone get together but,what I can't stand about family gatherings is that it's always some type of drama. Why does family always have to talk about family? Like why crack jokes about your loved ones? I don't really believe that jokes are just jokes. All jokes have some bit of truth to them. Most of the time the people who make these jokes mean what they say. They just use humor to make it more acceptable. Why do people always have something to say about someone else's significant other? If you're not dating, making love, fucking, sharing a mortgage, sharing children, or married to these people then you shouldn't have anything to say unless it's positive. Real talk people just need to worry about themselves. Everybody wants to judge and add their two cents about so and so's wife, husband, boyfriend, or girlfriend. Whoever these people are if that's who your family member wants to be with then, chill. Just be happy for them. Also, what's up with the seriousness. Family functions should be lighthearted. Some people take their delegated positions or jobs too seriously. I don't even know if we can call them jobs because you're just playing your part in making a family function flow. That doesn't mean act like you're drill sargeant.............................All in all what can you say? It's family

Ashanti- Good Good

2008-07-18T23:09:00.003-04:00

So here is Ashanti's new video "Good Good". Sorry but, I don't feel like searching for a link for "Body on Me". This is actually one of my favorite songs off Shani's new cd. The video is really cute and creative but, it's nothing I'd sit and watch over and over.

Do It Diva

2008-07-18T22:58:00.007-04:00

Big ups to Amanda Diva! She just did her first magazine cover with Jorden Magazine. You can check out the article here. Also, if you haven't checked it out already Clutch did a feature on her too this month. You can check it out here.

M.I.A.

2008-07-18T22:33:00.003-04:00

Hello,my beautiful readers and such. I apologize for being missing in action for the past 2 days. My father has been in my hometown this week whom I haven't seen in about 4 years or so. I don't remember exactly how many years but, it's been a long time and very emotional situation for me. I decided to put my anger behind me as well as what's happened in the past and spend some time with my father and my family since he's been here. I'm happy that I can say that these past 2 days have been fun and drama free! I actually had took my laptop w/ me so that I could some work done while I was away from home but, for some reason I couldn't not connect to my uncles wireless internet. I may or may not blog at a later time about my whole situation with my father but, at this point I'm not. I'm still soaking everything in and hella missing the blogosphere. I haven't had a chance to do my daily reading of blogs since I've been gone. I know Ashanti's 2 new videos, "Good Good" and "Body on Me" have premiered. I'll post them both in the next post. Let's see what else has been going on....I really don't even know. When you haven't been on the net for a few days it seems like you've missed so much. I'll guess I'll get to surfing and make any necessary posts following, if needed. Toodles~ As you can see I'm in a happy mood and I haven't been in a minute!

IT IS WHAT IT IS

2008-07-16T20:27:00.003-04:00

I don't know why I continue to read the comments that are posted on the Detroit Free Press' website. I swear the majority of them are racist and ignorant. That is no lie but, every time I log onto the Free Press' website to get my daily dose of Detroit news I can't help but, continue to read the comments that make me angry and make my blood boil. What kills me the most is that the people that leave these ignorant ass comments on the site, I can bet you 9 times out of 10 that the majority of them don't reside in Detroit. It's also quite obvious............Well I guess I'll get to the point of this post. While reading an column regarding councilwoman Barbara Rose Collins comments regarding the Tiger Stadium's racist past, there was a comment left that stuck with me. "I find it amusing that everything has to be about race. Why is it only the black community that lives in the past? Jews aren't out there constantly complaining that Europeans did nothing to prevent the extermination of millions of Jews. I don't see American Indians holding a grudge for what happened to them. The Japanese don't hate America for dropping nuclear weapons on two major cities, nor do I hear Japanese Americans constanly complaining about being rounded up into camps."
This comment was purely racist and ignorant just as the many other freqeuent comments left at Freep as I mentioned earlier. All I have to say is "IT IS WHAT IT IS". No matter what has happened to any group of people in the past, rather they complain or talk about it or not. IT HAPPENED. IT CAN'T BE CHANGED AND RACISTS FUCKS NEED TO GET OVER THEMSELVES AND STOP BEING MAD AT PEOPLE FOR REFLECTING ON IT, COMPLAINING ABOUT IT, TALKING ABOUT IT, WRITING ABOUT IT, MAKING FILMS ABOUT IT, AND SO ON.

Teairra Is Back, Yay!

2008-07-15T03:20:00.008-04:00

Ok. If you read my blog a few months ago when I made a post about where in the hell is my girl Teairra Mari, I thought the industry had devoured her but, she's back! I did some searching on Myspace and found a new and updated page for her. Now, I'll be quite honest. I don't know if I'm really digging the new songs because I don't seem to hear too much maturity lyrically but, hey she's still in the game. I guess I'll have to hear a full album to truly judge. Although, she hasn't matured lyrically I'll say that her wardrobe and vocals sure has. Word is that she' s working with Cudda Love of Fo'Reel Entertainment. This is the company that signed and discovered Nelly. So her new deal is now with Fo'Reel Entertainment/Interscope. Her new single is "No, No, No". You can check it out on the Myspace page. Now she also has become the new spokesmodel for Jean Addicts. So, I'm happy for that. Get em' girl. I aint' mad at cha. Keep the cash flowing. It's very funny that I discovered this info this morning because I saw a few new pics of her out and about on other blogs so I knew something was up and the girl wasn't just back on the East Side of Detroit chillin' (No pun intended I was an East Sider for 2 years lol). Jefferson and Van Dyke, What! LMAO! For those lazy folk that don't like clicking link's here is her new single, and a few other joints below.

NO, NO, NO

YOU SAID (I ACTUALLY LIKE THIS ONE)

Wait a minute, whoever posted this on youtube has this titled as if this was a joint made for Jay-Z/Rocafella???? She did get dropped from the Roc, so who knows. From the lyrics it could be. My first listen I thought it was about an engagement, but I don't know maybe Mr. Carter gave my girl false promises. If I ever get a chance to interview her I will be asking to find out!

TATTED

WAIT A MINUTE, I THOUGHT I WAS DONE WITH THIS POST BUT, THEN AGAIN I FOUND THIS INTERVIEW.............SO CHECK THIS OUT! AFTER WATCHING IT I THINK HER SONG, YOU SAID WAS OBVIOUSLY MADE FOR MR. CARTER AND ROCAFELLA RECORDS. ENJOY!

My Life...................................>

2008-07-15T02:25:00.004-04:00

I really don't know where my life is going these days. I may or may not be getting the fuck out of Michigan! If I do head from this dreadful mitten shaped state it'll most likely be New York, Chicago, or ATL. California was a choice until I thought about how artificial, materialistic, and phony most people are out there. I don't think I could surround myself with that type of energy. I think it would be best if I kept my sale shopping, dreadheaded, don't give a fuck about name brands ass away from a place like Cali. The weather, fam out there, and palm trees seemed nice at first but, no thanks. America can keep Cali. I don't want it. New York seems like my top choice right now. There are plenty of writing opportunities out there, especially with magazines. I always use to want to live there. It's where hip hop, which I love a lot was started. They say it's the city that never sleeps so we should get along pretty well. I guess the only thing that I am a little skeptical about is the "Grimey Ass New Yorker" syndrome. I'd hate to take my ass out there and get played because I don't have any friends or fam out there to give me the 411. Then again I'm from "The D". If you can make it in Detroit you can make it ANYWHERE. Now Chicago is my favorite place to visit. I go like 2-3 times and year and already know a lot of the streets and hot spots. It's like a mini-New York to me. If I can't handle a city as big as NY then Chicago would be the place for me. It has opportunity and it's not overwhelming. The food is off the chain too. If I moved there I'd probably automatically gain like 10 lbs and totally forefit my summer workout regimen. As far as Atlanta I never really wanted to go because everybody and their momma has moved down there. I know that the property value is good down there. You get a lot for your money but, I don't know. I'll be brutally honest. I'm very scared of the fact that ATL is the capital for AIDs in the African American community. That terrifies me but, I think I'm in need of a little southern hospitality and southern swagger. If I could truly have my way though I'd be the fuck out of the country. I'd be in Paris eating crepes and couscous lol , The UK sucking up all of the free universal healthcare, or somewhere in the Caribbean where I could live a very simple life for a while, eat plantains for breakfast, wear cotton skirts year round, walk outside barefooted to sand greeting my brown toes, and enjoy seeing sunkissed people..................................................... Who knows. My life is definitely a journey right now. Depending on what the universe drops me I may still be in SW Detroit or on plane away from my hometown. I'll keep you guys updated

No Homo

2008-07-13T16:37:00.004-04:00

I'm really sick of hearing people say no homo. Whatever happened to just being able to compliment another person. Why is everyone so scared to give compliments when they are due? Just because you give someone a compliment or tell the truth about how you feel about someone's looks doesn't make you a homosexual. Not that anything is wrong with being a homosexual anyway. People really need to get over themselves and this homophobic bullshit. I really don't understand why SOMEONE ELSE'S sexual orientation bothers people. If it aint you don't worry about it. I'm glad that I can give another woman a compliment without getting all crazy and no homoish.

Get Em' Badu...

2008-07-13T01:53:00.004-04:00

So apparently my girl, Erykah Badu is pregnant again. This time not by Andre 3000 or The DOC. This child was created with Jay Electronica. Of course a lot of blog readers decided to brutally criticize her on blogs sites for having 3 children out of wedlock ( I always wondered who the fuck created this retarded ass term anyway). So Badu decided to tell them a thing or two.... (source)

"HOW DARE YOU DISRESPECT THE QUEENDOM

…AND MY CHILDREN AND MY INTELLIGENCE.

ive never been so disgusted in all of my life .
there is no other place i used to enjoy more .
i post no where else .
you guys have taken an all time low , tho.

I’LL STATE MY PEACE

i am a great mother and care giver to my 2 children and to this world .
my children are 2 of the kindest and happiest people i have met.
I home schooled them and taught them the ways of good to the best of my ability.
i am their doctor and their nurse .
and even sometimes their mother and their father.

i am an excellent mother and resent all of the negative comments and insults on my character.
I PUT MUCH TIME AND THOUGHT INTO HAVING AND RAISING MY CHILDREN.
IVE HAD THE HONORS OF HAVING 2 HOME BIRTHS AND 2 WONDERFUL PARTNERS BY MY SIDE.

every relationship i have been in was because i loved the person DEARLY and was dedicated to us “exclusively” FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS.

the fathers of my children are my brothers and friends .
we have a great deal of respect for one another and always will.
WE LOVE OUR CHILDREN TO NO END.
we took our own “vows” and CONTINUE TO UPHOLD THEM.
AND THAT IS WHAT THAT IS .

question?
WHAT IS MARRIAGE ?
WHO IS THE JUDGE?
WE ONLY UNDERSTAND THE EXAMPLES WE ARE GIVEN ( well sort of)

WOULD IT “LOOK BETTER ” TO MARRY AND DIVIORCE AND MARRY AGAIN ?
WOULD THAT BE MORALLY CORRECT ?
WHATS THE DIFFERENCE ? the government’s involvement i guess.
IDEALLY , IT WOULD BE EXCELLENT TO FIND THE MAN OR WOMAN WHO FULFILLS YOUR SPIRIT AND STAY FOR EVER AND EVER ( thru sickness and health till death do us part ) AND HAVE HEALTHY STRONG CHILDREN AS A RESULT OF A HEALTHY AND STRONG UNION.
(this CAN happen … we need much training , however.)

IS IT REALLY “GOOD” TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE BOTH PARTIES ARE UNFULFILLED , LONGING FOR RELIEF , BRINGING one another down as a result of improper training , creating BAD ENERGY AND EXPERIENCES FOR THE CHILD TO REPEAT ?
(not to mention breeding deceit and anger and resentment )
SEEMS TO CREATE FEARFUL CHILDREN WHO TURN INTO FEARFUL ADULTS .

HOW MANY OF YOU GREW UP IN 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE MISERABLE AS FUCK ?
OR 2 PARENT HOMES THAT WERE NOT PERFECT BUT WORKED?
HOW MANY GREW UP IN ONE PARENT HOMES WHERE THE MOTHER WORKED HARD TO MAKE SURE YOU WERE CARED FOR BUT SHE WASNT QUITE HAPPY?
HOW ABOUT A HOME WHERE THE FATHER WAS THE MAIN CARE GIVER AND DID THE BEST HE COULD -LACKING NURTURE?
HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE A SIBLING THAT HAS A DIFFERENT FATHER OR MOTHER?
DOES HE OR SHE MEAN LESS TO YOU?
HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE MORE THAN 1 MOTHER OR FATHER OF YOUR OWN CHILDren ?
HOW MANY OF YOU HAD /OR / ARE PARENTS RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO MAKE GOOD DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN ,THAT DONT QUITE FIT ANY OF THESE DESCRIPTIONS?
HOW MANY OF YOU STAY IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS FOR FEAR OF GOING TO HELL?
HOW MANY HOS OUT THERE … THAT HAVE KIDS TO GET A PAYDAY?
HOW MANY PEOPLE GETTING THEY ASS KICKED AND ARE FORCED TO SUBMIT CAUSE YO MAMA GOT HER ASS KICKED?
THEN WHAT is CORRECT?

how about this:

I PRAY WITH MY CHILDREN
I FEED THEM GOOD FOOD
THEY RESPECT PEOPLES DIFFERENCES
THEY TRAVEL THE WORLD WITH ME
THE KNOW WHO THEY ARE
THEY ADORE THEIR FATHERS AND ARE LOVED BY 2 PARENTS OR MORE -
OR TWO OR MORE SETS OF LOVING GRANDPARENTS
THEY CRY
THEY GET HURT
THEY GET SICK
THEY HEAL

THEY ARE real

THEY ARE NOT AN IDEA or a TOPIC
AND NEITHER AM I .
I AM ALIVE .
I AM BEAUTIFUL WOMAN.
I AM A GOOD WOMAM.
I AM GROWING
I AM COMPLETE WITH OR WITHOUT A PARTNER AND WILL ALWAYS BE
AND I HAVE DREAMS OF A FAMILY STRUCTURE
ALL OF MY DREAMS DO NOT COME TRUE
AND DESPITE ALL OF THE PAIN IN MY LIFE …
IN MY MOTHERS LIFE …
IN MY GRANDMOTHERS LIFE
WE HAVE ALWAYS ENDURED
AND THERE IS SO MUCH JOY TO BE EXPERIENCED.
I NEVER HAD A FATHER AND I DONT KNOW WHAT THAT FEELS LIKE -
BUT MY CHILDREN DO , AND THEY LOVE THEIR ‘PARENTS’ .

WE ARE THEIR CHAMPIONS .

live how you want . follow which ever pattern YOU like .
MY CHILDREN WILL BE LEADERS
and they will not ever be slaves to this society’s failing idea of morality.
THEY OWN THEIR MINDS AND THEIR DREAMS.

BIRTH CONTROL lol … could have 10 babies instead of 2 .

I LOVE CHILDREN AND I WILL HAVE AS MANY AS GOD WILL GIVE ME .

I AM VERY HEALTHY AND RESPONSIBLE AND SO ARE ALL OF MY PARTNERS

I CHOSE THEM WISELY AND SOBERLY .

ALL GOOD BROTHERS .

your opinions lack experience and are not only careless but also very uninformed and immature.

nothing is sacred here . and i see why.

if i loose you as a fan because i want to continue to have children then
F*CK OFF… WHO NEEDS YOU ….CERTAINLY NOT ME … KICK ROCKS … CALL TYRONE … PACK LIGHT …. BITE ME

i have defended myself here ON THIS SITE and hurled a few insults .. but only in response to your insults of
my music , my clothes , my lyrics , my hair , my being a woman , my spirit, my choices of partners….
these have all been on trial here . and i continued to support the energy of this place .

this is to all the okay players / REAL HUMAN BEINGS hiding behind screen names in order to insult one another and who ever else you will.

geeeez…
i had to say something
i am so sad for parents who try , today guys
enough is enuf.

dont judge to quickly , OKAY PLAYER?

i know you are having fun , but what if it were you and your children?
my son is 10 .
my daughter, 4 .

peace

ANALOGUE GIRL

and if this post is not clear
kiss my placenta."

I don't blame her. People kill the fuck out of me always trying to judge. She's right would it make more sense to get married several times just because society thinks it's right? Fuck America as well as other countries and their narrow minded ass views. Live your own life. Be Happy. Do what the fuck ever you want because you have to deal with it nobody else does. You only get one life. Nothing in it is guaranteed besides death. That's why I have locks that I love regardless of how many ignorant comments I've had. I have 5 tattoos and I'm probably gonna get like 25 more. My nose is pierced. I have 2 wholes in each of my ears. I watch porn and probably have about 5-6 toys that I pleasure myself with regularly. Once I'm up to it redoing my hair I'm dying the back pink. I love foods that aren't conventional or that the average air headed American wouldn't dare try. I sleep in the nude at least once a week. When I'm home alone I sometimes blast my radio and dance naked. I'm 22. I've been in college since 2003 and I'm still not finished. I've saw a psychiatrist during at least 2 time periods in my life and I'm going back. Guess what. I could give a fuck what anybody else thinks. Do you because you damn sure ain't doing me.

Feeling The Way That I Do

2008-07-13T01:20:00.002-04:00

"Feeling the way that I do it's hard to keep focus", It's funny that soon as I started to post the beginning of Jill Scott's Spring Summer Feeling came on. This is exactly the deal right now. I've been bumping my girl Jilly from Philly for the past 45 mins or so trying to overcome the feeling to go outside on my porch and smoke. I have 3 more left in my pack that I thought I wouldn't touch because the last time that I smoked my chest felt extremely heavy as hell afterward. I think I'm gonna break down and smoke anyway and just suffer the consequences. This whole month has been rough as hell. Nothing but, days and nights spent crying and then sleeping because if I'm woke I'll just cry. I never got so much sleep in life without feeling more tired. I'm up all night long until the birds chirp. My usual bed time is about 6AM. I don't usually wake up until around 1pm and then I'll force myself back to sleep until about 4pm or 5pm just so I don't have to deal. I know. It sounds like a real lazy cop out right? I'm lucky to get any work done because about 80% of the time I just can't focus or I'm irritated as hell. I swear if my cash flow was right, I'd be on a train somewhere and getting off at whatever stop I woke up too. I'd walk the streets of an unknown city where nobody would know me. I'd probably even walk them late at night too and dare someone to try some shit. I dont' think I'd check into a hotel. Maybe I'd just find a cafe or Coney Island and sit in a booth, smoke, and write until daylight. I'd shut my phone off so that nobody could contact me. It would just be me, myself, and I. Then after my journey was over I'd come back home move into a new place without telling anyone my address. I wouldn't even unpack. I'd enjoy the white walls and solitude. Then after that I guess I'd return back to reality and look at everyone like, What? We all need to escape sometime.

Throw Back- Kelis "Young Fresh N' New"

2008-07-11T16:57:00.001-04:00

Yea. Right now I just want to run away from home...

Time Doesn't Heal Wounds It Only Subsides Them

2008-07-10T09:33:00.001-04:00

Check out my latest Think Girl column here

Interruption

2008-07-10T01:53:00.006-04:00

Sorry folks, but I had to interrupt or postpone 7 Days, 7 Interviews today because it was my little sister's 12th birthday. Myself, my sister, my mom, my cousin, and my granny high tailed it to Sandusky, Ohio for Cedar Point. If you're from the Midwest then you most likely know what it is. If you don't know, it's an amusement park that's better than Six Flags. Today was my first time stepping foot back in Cedar Point after about 12 years. Yes, it's been that long. I already knew that I couldn't really handle rides anymore because of a few trips to local carnivals but, oh boy did that get re-confirmed today. Let's just say that I only got on 4 rides. Mind you we arrived at Cedar Point before they were even open (approximately 9:15 AM) and left at about 6:30pm. So for about 9 hours all I did was get on 4 rides, which were The Rapture, The Pirate Ship (that's at every carnival), Snake River Falls, and Thunder Something (these were both harmless water rides). It was hot as hell so I got on Snake River Falls about 6 times until it almost made me sick. My riding adventures came to a complete halt around 2:30pm. I was frankly ready to dip it back to Detroit and get in my bed. I walked around Cedar Point soaked as hell from repeatedly getting on the water ride. It took me forever to dry because of the repeated sittings in the shade. Meanwhile, my 73 year old grandmother who has cancer and emphysema was accompanying my little sister on every crazy ass ride there was because myself, my cousin, and my mom were too chicken to get on these rides. It was hilarious and unbelievable. To top it off my Granny didn't even scream. She got off almost every ride saying " That wasn't nothing". Straight up, my Granny is a G. To make a long story short. As soon as I got back in the car to head back home I felt as if I was going to puke from the 4 little baby rides that I got on. Then when I arrived home by legs were killing me with all types of cramps and aches and pains. So, I called my Granny up to check on her and see if she was in such pain like I was. She told me NO. It's crazy because as of now my legs are still in pain. Unfortunately my super hot bath with epsom salt didn't do a thing. At the end of the day even though I think I have officially retired from theme and amusement parks it was great to see my grandmother have so much fun as well as my little sister. So, I'm happy and about to go to bed because I'm trumped.

Miss Rap Supreme's Byata

2008-07-08T09:55:00.011-04:00

As you all should know by now, I love seeing female rappers on the grind because they're so misrepresented right now. One of my favorites from Miss Rap Supreme, Byata has definitely been on the grind since the show. I had the opportunity to talk to her this morning, very early. So I thank her for being willing to talk before the birds even chirp. Her interview will kick off the 7 Days, 7 Interviews! So here it goes...

Glennisha: How are you?

Byata: I’m doing good. Taking care of business.

Glennisha: How has it been since the show?

Byata: It’s been pretty much a hustle. I’m grinding a lot and a lot extra than I would before the show. It’s a lot of notoriety.

Glennisha: Well first off congratulations! Even though you didn’t win Miss Rap Supreme you were basically like the second runner up. So you came a long way. There were a lot of talented women on the show but, you made it to the top two. How does that feel?

Byata: It’s feels good. Rece definitely deserved to win. I got a chance to gain a large fan base from it.

Glennisha: How did you hear about Miss Rap Supreme?

Byata: I use to wait tables at this restaurant and the producer of the show would come by and listen to me spit a lot.

Glennisha: What was the experience like to be in a house with so many other females who obviously had the same passion as you?

Byata: It was interesting to see different girls from different places come together and vibe. It was really cool and inspiring to me. It kept me motivated. It kept me on my Ps and Qs every second.

Glennisha: I was listening to the lyrics on your song “Hush Lil Lady”, which happens to be one of my favorites, and you made references to your father leaving and using drugs, your mother not really being there, and not having any friends. So was it kind of being in a state of solitude that pushed you to start writing?

Byata: It was a lot of pain that pushed me to writing. When I first started writing everything that I wrote was very painful and dark. I remember I use to call my Dad up and tell him to listen to my poetry or rhymes and he would say “Why are you so dark and why are you so gloomy”. I remember that. That was definitely why I started writing, to release pain. Then later on I started using everything else as an inspiration, not just pain. The solitude definitely came into play, just being alone, and just vibing with the energy of the universe.

Glennisha: Who inspires you?

Byata: Lauryn Hill was a big inspiration to me. Now days, Will.i.am is very inspirational to me. I like 50 (Cent). I like him because of his flow and I’m inspired by it. Tupac most definitely. Biggie and then outside of Hip Hop people like Pink, Janis Joplin from back in the day, The Doors, and The Beatles. I just love music period so I get inspired by a lot of different things.

Glennisha: What’s in rotation on your IPod or your CD player right now?

Byata: (Laughs) Everything. I got a little bit of house music. I got a little bit of hip hop music. I got a little bit of 80s. I like 80s music a lot. So when I’m jogging on the treadmill I definitely have a bunch of different array of songs coming through.

Glennisha: I think that the representation of female emcees right now is crazy. For instance there were only 2 nominees in the female rapper category at the BET Awards this year that actually had full albums out and 2003 was the last year that the Grammys even had a female emcee category. How do you feel about that?

Byata: I feel that the women are not taken seriously as artists. A lot of it has a lot to do with maybe the way that they portray themselves. Not all of them but, some of them. I feel like a lot of them either burn bridges or just don’t act right. There is also no alliance with females. There is a lot of drama. We’re not taken seriously because of that. I feel like females should be nominated and getting awards because we work just as hard and it’s actually harder for us. I think all of that will change really soon.

Glennisha: BET just had an all female panel for America vs. Hip Hop. MC Lyte was the moderator but, there wasn’t a female emcee on the panel and of course up for topic of discussion was the way women are portrayed in hip hop videos. So let me ask you, how do you, being a female rapper feel about the way women are portrayed in hip hop or music videos period?

Byata: The majority of the videos that I see women are portrayed as toys. It’s pretty much fat asses, big titties, little shorts, and bouncing going on. We just look like pretty hot toys that are on the TV shaking our ass. I don’t have anything bad to say but, if that’s what a female wants to do then that’s how she portrays herself. It’s not something that I would do or have in my video unless I’m making fun of it. Whatever floats your boat to be honest with you. I don’t hate on anything really but, it’s not something I would do.

Glennisha: You were the first white female rapper to ever appear on 106 and Park’s Freestyle Friday. Have you ever had any issues with you being not only a female rapper but, a white female rapper?

Byata: Yea. I didn’t get signed by two major labels because of the skin color that I have. Five years ago when I was shopping my shit labels were very scared to sign a white girl. They didn’t know if it would go or if it was a gimmick. They didn’t know how to present it the right way. So that kind of fucked things up for me when it came to getting signed. Now days I feel like it’s an advantage for me because I’m different. I’m unique. It’s like I’m a minority when it comes to the Hip Hop game. So, it’s like ok. I walk into a room full of Hip Hop heads with the way I’m dressed and the way I look and cats wouldn’t expect me to spit but, when I do the whole color thing goes over. People don’t look at me anymore like “Damn that’s a white girl”. I get praised for my talents period so I kind of like it now. I use it as an advantage for me now. Back in the day white girls couldn’t get no love.

Glennisha: You’re Russian right?

Byata: Yes.

Glennisha: Do you happen to know what the hip hop scene is like in Russia?

Byata: Oh yea. I actually have been to Russia. I did a show out there and hung out with some hip hop heads from Russia. They’re into it. It’s funny because they have the underground scene where they spit for real and then they have the Pop Hip Hop scene where they dress like Hip Hop artists in America. It’s interesting but, it’s there and it definitely exists.

Glennisha: On Miss Rap Supreme we got to see you work with Will.i.am Is there anyone in particular that you’d like to work with?

Byata: I would love to do some music with Timbaland. I would love to do something with (Dr.) Dre. If I could sign with anybody I would definitely sign with 50 (Cent) because I’m digging his whole swag and his business mentality. I think he would be able to put me out there the right way. I’d love to work with Gwen Stefani.

Glennisha: Oh. I love Gwen!

Byata: Yea! Definitely I’d love to work with her. Any talented muthafucka that can inspire me I’d work with honestly. Just like that. If the music is right, I’m on it.

Glennisha: You have an album out right now titled, “Undefined”. Tell us a bit about that.

Byata: Undefined is something that I put together. It’s a collection of songs that I have recorded over the years. I figured my fans were going to be looking for some music when the show aired. So I just got my material together and the best songs that I had and just put them out. They’re not really mixed or mastered. They’re recorded straight onto the CD. I gave it to you guys raw like that. It’s the raw me. It is what it is. You either love it or hate it. That’s just what it is. I called it undefined because it’s so many different styles of Byata that they can’t be defined. I can’t just say I’m this way or I’m that way. So I just decided to label it undefined and let the fans define it.

Glennisha: Do you have any upcoming tours or shows?

Byata: I’m working on a college tour right now. I’m trying to get that together. Basically that’s pretty much it right now. I’m talking with a booking and management agency. I’m trying to get my whole circle together and start creating a really big buzz.

Glennisha: A lot of people may not know but, you were in Spike Lee’s movie He Got Game. Will we get a chance to see you on the big screen again?

Byata: Yes you will. I’m actually shooting a movie starting August 16^th. I’m shooting this movie called the Rothstein Diamond. I’m the leading character in the movie. It’s going to be in Sundance (Film Festival) 2009 or 2010. It’s definitely nice to get a leading role. I didn’t expect that so I’m very blessed to have that.

Glennisha: Congratulations

Byata: Thank You.

Glennisha: This is something that I personally would love to see but, do you think that you could ever get together with other emcees from Miss Rap Supreme and do like a compilation album or something?

Byata: I would love to. It’s definitely something that I’ve asked about before and reached out for. A lot of girls are just busy doing their own thing. I don’t really have the time to set the whole thing up myself and start getting tracks and sending them out to chicks. I have to worry about my own shit but, I put it out into the atmosphere, I definitely did. I would love to do some shit with Nicky, Rece, Ms. Cherry, and Lady Twist. I think that’s it pretty much with the chicks in the house. We’re all taking care of our own business. One of us is going to have to get out the hot seat and say, “Alright, let’s do this”. I don’t know. Hopefully it could happen but, like I said everybody is busy doing their own thing.

Glennisha: Thank you so much for your time Byata and for participating in 7 Days, 7 Interviews. I’m so looking forward to seeing and hearing more of you. Continue to hold it down for the ladies!

Byata: Thank you, mama.

*Audio Coming Soon*

You can purchase Byata's album, Undefined @ http://cdbaby.com/Byata

For booking visit www.Byata.com

Nasty Nas a Hero?

2008-07-08T01:09:00.001-04:00

Here is Nas' new video "Hero" featuring Keri Hilson. Thanks to Clutch!

The Fem Movement

2008-07-07T23:53:00.006-04:00

I always wondered what ever happened to Babs from Making the Band. Speaking of her, herself, Amil, Lady of Rage, and Lady Luck have united to form the "Fem Movement" also known as "Females Earning Money". Their aim is to renew the female emcees' presence in commercial hip hop. Their first collective project is a new mixtape hosted by DJ Doo Wop. Rah Digga is also suppose to make an appearance on the mixtape. (Source) I never thought too much of Amil but, hey I like the idea of anyone trying to represent for the females of hip hop. I definitely think Babs and Lady of Rage have something to bring to the table although, I never really had a chance to listen to Lady Luck so I can't say much about her but, I'm most definitely looking forward to this collabo!

A Lil Badu 4 U

2008-07-07T22:50:00.001-04:00

Now hopefully Badu can get me over this hump so I can get some work done...

Cigs. Bidis. and Blacks

2008-07-07T21:30:00.006-04:00

Ok. I'll reveal a secret. I guess you can say that I'm a secret smoker. I'm not addicted though and I don't go around buying a pack a day, not even within a weeks time. I do happen to buy cigarettes when I'm extremely stressed out. My cigarettes of choice are DJarum Blacks because they smell great and they don't taste like conventional cigarettes but, they happen to cost a little bit more. They're around the $7 range. I hate to spend that much money because I'll most likely only smoke about 3 out of the whole pack. To save money and nasty taste (the aftertaste is horrible though no matter how many times you brush your teeth ) I sometimes to revert to Black and Milds. They usually cost me a little under $3. I hear that they're worst than cigarettes. Today a friend mentioned to me that I should try Bidis because they're a lot better than cigarettes period. So I did what most internet addicts do, and immediately googled the product. What do you know, I found a few articles stating that Bidis are actually worse than cigarettes. The way I see it if you're inhaling it then it's bad for you bottom line. Although, I've read that Bidis are worse I also read that they come in really cool flavors like chocolate. So I have to try them. What not a better way to subside stress, chocolate & cigs. LOL

Clutch Magazine

2008-07-06T23:07:00.004-04:00

If you're a frequent reader here I'm sure you've probably noticed me make references to Clutch Mag Online quite a few times. It's honestly my favorite magazine and I find myself checking in there everyday for updates. Well I just landed an internship position there and I'm hella excited. I know that it will definitely be a great learning experience. I'm just very honored to be able to contribute. I had a chance to meet everyone involved with clutch today via a conference call. I must say that Clutch has some great things coming up so stay tuned! Also big ups to the woman behind it all, DeDe. She's a very humble and down to earth person that's willing to help. Sad to say but, there aren't many sisters out here like that. So again, big ups to her and thanks to her for granting me this opportunity! I'll keep you all updated with my contributions to Clutch.

Denver Woman Sings Black National Athem @ City Ceremony

2008-07-05T23:31:00.003-04:00

Singer Rene' Marie was asked to sing "The Star Spangled Banner" on Tuesday at Mayor John Hickenlooper's state of the city address but, instead she sang "Lift Evry' Voice and Sing". Marie stated that she kept it as a surprise and only told her husband and one friend about what she was going to do. After she sang the Black national anthem she then mixed the melody of "The Star Spangled Banner" with "Lift Evry' Voice and Sing". This of course sparked a lot of controversy. There are also some very interesting comments on The Voice, where I got my sources from. The majority seems to be offended and quite upset by this stunt. I'm honestly proud of this woman for having the guts to do this. It takes someone very brave and one who stands up for principle to pull something off like this. It's kind of messed up that she was asked to sing America's national anthem and did what she wanted to do instead but, I feel the same way that she does. When I'm at events that call for singing the national anthem I almost never sing along. I'm not very patriotic due to the discrimination and blatant racism that America has put my people and ancestors through. Besides, @ every basketball, baseball, football game, and other sporting events "The Star Spangled Banner" is always sung. The only time that "Lift Evry' Voice" is sang is at private events by Black organizations. We too are America. In fact our ancestors help build this country. So what is wrong with switching up the anthem sometimes?..............Big ups to Rene' Marie.

My 4th of July

2008-07-05T01:53:00.004-04:00

I'm usually not that big on holidays. They're actually just another day to me but, I love them because their an opportunity to see family, and especially the ones that you usually don't see. I had planned that I was going to stay home this fourth of July and work. I had a column to finish and also some work for a client. Prior to starting my work I decided to go ahead and try making the hot water cornbread that I had been craving for about a week. You don't even want to know what happened the first time around. All I have to say is smoke, burnt grease, and fire detectors! LOL! So it didn't work out too well the first time around. I was told that the key to the perfect hot water cornbread is to make sure that the grease is extremely hot. I guess I went completely overboard. So I had to throw away the first batch and clean out the pan. Luckily, I actually had some batter left because I had finished the box of cornmeal. Second time around I had just enough to make 4 nice round hot water corn cakes! They turned out perfect the second time. So, I'm very proud of myself.

While I was making the cornbread one of my favorite uncles called me and asked me to go house hopping with him for the day. Although, I planned to stay in and get some work done I couldn't turn down my uncle. Plus, I hadn't seen him since Christmas. Boy, did we have fun! I think we set the definition of "house hopping". We visited 6 different houses from about 3:45 in the afternoon until a little after midnight. Please believe we ate super good and took super plates home. All together today I ate bbq chicken, macaroni-n-cheese (@ 2 diff houses), greens, corn bread (@ 3 diff houses & including mine), devil eggs, baked beans, bourbon salmon, cup cakes, and key lime pie. Besides the good food I had a ball laughing and eating with my family that I don't get to see that much. This year was a little different for me because I spent time with my family on my Dad's side instead of the usual with the fam on my mom's side. It was a refreshing change although, I did miss seeing my other fam but, I guess I'll catch them on the next holiday. I hope everybody's 4th was as good as mine.

BTW, I can't forget to mention that on my way to one of my Aunt's house we couldn't get down the street (residential) because some guys had 2 horses. It's not everyday in Detroit that you get to see horses in the middle of a residential street. So that was a little exciting to see horses chillin off 8 mile LOL. I actually snapped a few pictures of them but, for some reason my damn camera magically deleted all of the damn pictures that I took today! I wanted to post them but, now I can't. For some crazy reason my pics magically reappeared this morning.So they're posted now! Yay! Anywhoooo. I'm full. My stomach hurts from being a greedy fat ass and I'm tired as hell. So I'm off to bed. No 5am or 6am shit tonight.

I'll Be Loving You Long Time/Pusha Man

2008-07-04T01:39:00.002-04:00

At first I posted Mariah Carey's new video for her song I'll Be Lovin You Long Time but, I decided to repost a rather more interesting video by a Canadian artist named Ayah.

...For whatever reason I couldn't erase the embedded code of Mariah's video so here are them both! Enjoy!

Get On With It Already

2008-07-03T22:06:00.003-04:00

Judge Ronald Giles decided that he needs until July 14 to decide if prosecutors can make a public court filing in the pretrial involving the criminal cases of Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick and his former chief of staff, Christine Beatty. I just wish they'd get the ball rolling and convict both of these stupid fucks! They are both a huge embarrassment to the city of Detroit. I can't wait to see the clown ass city council members who are now being investigated by the FBI charged and convicted as well. Corruption has to stop! It is because of arrogant and selfish dumbies like these two that the city of Detroit is in the rut that it's in now. I won't even get into how pissed I am about our portion of the tunnel being sold to Canada. Thanks Kwame & The City Council for continuing to fuck Detroit in the ass with no vaseline!

Empathy

2008-07-02T20:14:00.003-04:00

Ok. So I'm watching this reality show called baby borrowers. I hardly ever watch tv but, my mom insisted that this show is so good. The show is an experiment about high school couples who want to move in together so they move into an adult couple's house and also have to take care of their children to see if they can handle the heat. Their second day there they get a blue box on the door step. It's an empathy belly! The girl has to wear it. If you had child development in high school like I did you may know exactly what it is. Guess what came to my mind while watching this? I think that future fathers should have to wear this belly for the full 9 months while the mothers of their child carries the real thing! I bet they would really empathize! LOL

Bloggers & National Association of Black Journalist Members

2008-07-02T20:00:00.003-04:00

Are you a fan of The Root who wants to attend the UNITY Journalists of Color conference, July 23-27 in Chicago?

We'll be there in force, and we're looking for two bloggers – full of The Root voice, style and depth -- to help us chronicle the big ideas and big fun of the event. The chosen two will be featured prominently throughout the UNITY conference, with a branded blog on The Root. You'll post multiple times a day on the hottest happenings at UNITY, everything from insights on the future of journalism to who did what at the best parties.

We'll even help foot the bill. The Root will cover your registration for the conference and give you $1000 toward your travel and lodging expenses.

Want to get Rooted in UNITY? Send the following to UnityContest@theroot.com:

1) Your name, address, daytime telephone number and email address

2) A link to your blog, plus links to two selected blog entries

3) One sample of your non-blog writing

4) A short essay, not more than 500 words, answering the question: "Where do bloggers fit in the future of black media?"

DEADLINE FOR ENTRY: 5 p.m. EST, July 8, 2008

Applicants must be members of NABJ.

http://www.theroot.com/id/47026

We will notify our chosen bloggers by July 11, 2008.

**Contest rules and regulations**
http://www.theroot.com/id/47056

This sounds like a wonderful opportunity and experience. What's funny is I've been wanting to join the NABJ for a very long time now but, I just never did it. It's look like I better become a member real fast if I want to participate in this!

Second Annual Detroit Women of Color International Film Festival

2008-07-01T14:43:00.002-04:00

The SECOND ANNUAL DETROIT WOMEN OF COLOR INTERNATIONAL FILM FESTIVAL showcases inter-generational films and videos by African American, Continental African, Asian, Caribbean, Latino, Middle Eastern and Native American women film and video makers.

They present exceptional films and videos that span racial identity, sexuality, science-fiction, relationships, politics, history, empowerment, healing, hip hop, cultural traditions, spirituality and love.

More information at http://dwcfilmfest.tripod.com/

Screenings and discussions to entertain, educate, expand and mobilize will be held at Detroit’s

Charles H. Wright Museum of African American History
315 East Warren Ave.
Detroit Michigan, 48201

Friday, July 11, 2008 from 6:00 p.m. ~ 10:00 p.m.
Saturday, July 12, 2008 from 12:00 p.m. ~ 10:00 p.m

$15.00 for each day
$25 for both days

Group rates are available.

I Want To Cry

2008-07-01T06:26:00.003-04:00

Wow this video was posted as Amy Winehouse punches fan @Glastonbury, but I wasn't even captivated by that. She's obviously high as the sky and completely out of her mind. She's staggering, slurring, can't remember lyrics, and just a hot ass mess. I read about the rumors of her drug usage but, damn I didn't know that Amy was this bad. Where is her family, friends, anybody? She's really needs an intervention. This video is sad. I feel sorry for her. Watching this really makes me want to cry. I love Amy's music but, I'm afraid that she won't be living long for me to hear more .